It was a tiny lower leaf that was shaded by the upper canopyDon't go ripping off parts of your plant lol.
Relax. Give it time it will show it's sex. A herm shows both sacs and calyx and it doesn't sound like you have either.
That's a long time to wait for sex to show lolNone of that looks like hermie to me.
As suggested it will take up to 8 weeks to show sex.
Helax and wait for maturity
If you wait for it and don't flip 6-8 is what I get.That's a long time to wait for sex to show lol