missnu
Well-Known Member
That is the best line for this argument I have seen so far anywhere, cuz you know I never had to make a choice...it just happened...so why wouldn't it just happen for gay people too...? I mean don't get me wrong...I don't mind women, I like the way they look, and don't even mind sleeping with them on occasion, but I am just innately attracted to men more...but I had never thought of that...the fact that I didn't choose, so why would anyone else have come to a crossroad of sorts between straight or gay...there was never any thought that went into it...I just liked boys..and not because I was supposed to I don't think...I mean I never even thought about it as a child and young adult...I mean there were gay people but then just as now, they don't affect me one way or the other...Why does it matter whether it is a choice or not? Do you remember choosing between liking girls and boys when you hit puberty? If you didn't choose, why do you supposed people that have different attractions actually made a conscious choice versus felt something inherent like you did? I think the only people that try to claim being gay is a choice are people looking for a reason to discriminate against them.
I don't understand why people care so much one way or the other...a choice, or not...why do people make such a fuss...
I mean you shouldn't sleep with children, or animals, but whatever consenting adult, or inanimate object you choose to have sex with is totally up to you and I feel wholly unaffected by another person's sexual decisions/choices/inherent nature...
I feel as though homo relations doesn't harm either person anymore than opposite sex couples, I mean face it, sometimes things get out of hand, but I don't consider it sexual deviancy to be attracted to the same sex...