please explain a peaceful society and how does one become
Sure. Good question. A peaceful society is one which the initiation of force against another individual in a non-defensive way is not tolerated, even if you call yourself government.
Human relations are based in the idea that the individual has every right to determine his / her own path, but not the path of others. You are free to associate with anyone that wants to associate with you, you are not free to murder and call it collateral damage, steal and call it taxes or assault people over a plant because you have a badge, etc.
Economic freedom is a component of a peaceful society. No monopoly on what "money" is or can be will be held by a coercive authority.
In fact the only governments you could have in a peaceful society would all be voluntary. Logic insists that is so. IF you are involuntarily encompassed in anything, a government or a wendys bathroom, somebody has broken the peace...hence if the base of an involuntary government is force, by definition it cannot at the same time be peaceful.
To contrast, an orderly society is one that has some outward aspects of peace, but it is not spontaneous if it is held in place thru fear or threats. Saadam Hussein was boss of a fairly orderly society, but it wasn't peaceful as the gun was always in the room.
In fact what all coercive governments sell to their serfs as "peace" is in actuality order. The color of the flag is irrelevant, they all do it.