well i did have a big problem !!!!! i think i fixed it for now... ill check it tomorrow, but anyways, the problem was, that i didnt notice the plies ended up growin in the dirt.... so i moved the dirt a bit and a shit load of flyes came out so what i did, is check my bag of soil to see if it was contaminated.... and i got lucky... it wasn't... so i filled the sink with lukewarm water.... neither hot nor cold, and put my plant/dirt in it... i gently removed all the dirt being careful not to damage any roots, and while the dirt was breaking apart i went to create a new batch of fresh soil....(with perlite and an other thing...forgot wtf its called) and i put some halfway through the pot. took my plant, with just the roots(no more dirt) and put it in the pot.... filled the rest of the pot carefully and flushed the soil with water.... so far i didnt notice anything goin on with the plant... its been about 30 minutes..... ill post an update later....
ps the reason im explaining every detail, is so that if iit works, and my baby survives, it will serve as a lesson to other newbies.....