Because you acknowlege these people and research them, and effectively you market them by talking about them, you support racist...I forget they even exist, nor do I know their slang words or philosophy, nor do I care..To even acknowledge them is 'bad for you'. Its bad for everyone.
They are morons and everyone knows it...Only ignorant people are racist, racism is only ignorance in my view, and a mental illness.
I can sympathize if your wife has been a victim, but all you can do is ignore it if you want to be happy. Not healthy whatsoever that you are reading racist forums....I wonder how many just like you are on there?