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mr sunshine

mr sunshine

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sunni said:
last few days of school have been quite difficult for me, we went to a residential school and did traditional healing methods there with groups of people, the air was so heavy..it was hard to breathe ..

now im attempting to do an assignment with Major depressive disorder, but its quite depressing to read about given whats been going on with my mother.
tomorrow we have to do more training events, and on friday we have a test.
I have been looking into other universities to see what else i can get a degree in after im done this, but i havent quite figure out what my true talents are. I am great with public speaking and teaching i dunno anymore kinda at a cross roads.
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U have your whole life to decide... don't stress. You should take a break, eat something..maybe take a bath, it might make you feel a little more comfortable. When you're done u can tackle your assignment one page at a time...just keep moving, you're doing good
 
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Mr. Bongwater said:
thanks, and she has a mental illness where she can't tell whats reality and whats not
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its called dissociative disorder , she has probably had a past trauma in her life, its usually associated with sexual abuse as a child, although not always.
She should do 3 things
seek out a psychiatrist
seek out a social worker specialized in mental health issues
seek out a doctor.

There are a few options for her to get onto her healing journey however she will need proper support groups both one and one and community groups with similar disorders.

She will most likely get put on medication, however the issues with that is often mental health suffers will stop using the meds when they start working because they think they are better, however they are not.
she also needs to get to the root of the issue and heal through one on one counseling with professional help.
If you would like, PERSONAL message me her location, and i will find services for her that will benefit her in regards to social workers and counselors.

She can indeed get treatment herlife isnt over she just needs to get help and be open and honest with those who will not judge her in any way.
 
Mr. Bongwater

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i got anxiety and ptsd myself, I'm an alcoholic and was a drug addict for like 5 years (not anymore) got a long ol wrap sheet involving booze
 
sunni

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mr sunshine said:
U have your whole life to decide... don't stress. You should take a break, eat something..maybe take a bath, it might make you feel a little more comfortable. When you're done u can tackle your assignment one page at a time...just keep moving, you're doing good
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mm im quite a bit older then you think, but yes i agree.
as for the paper it will be there when im ready or not ready for it.
ive had a family crisis going on for about 6 months now, and it has reached it peak at the moment which is causing me to withdraw from my education.
 
Mr. Bongwater

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sunni said:
its called dissociative disorder , she has probably had a past trauma in her life, its usually associated with sexual abuse as a child, although not always.
She should do 3 things
seek out a psychiatrist
seek out a social worker specialized in mental health issues
seek out a doctor.

There are a few options for her to get onto her healing journey however she will need proper support groups both one and one and community groups with similar disorders.

She will most likely get put on medication, however the issues with that is often mental health suffers will stop using the meds when they start working because they think they are better, however they are not.
she also needs to get to the root of the issue and heal through one on one counseling with professional help.
If you would like, PERSONAL message me her location, and i will find services for her that will benefit her in regards to social workers and counselors.

She can indeed get treatment herlife isnt over she just needs to get help and be open and honest with those who will not judge her in any way.
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she was on meds for longest time then she stopped, now shes in the hospital, i never knew anything about it until today
 
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Mr. Bongwater said:
i got anxiety and ptsd myself, I'm an alcoholic and was a drug addict for like 5 years (not anymore) got a long ol wrap sheet involving booze
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that is common with anxiety and ptsd suffers, they will self medicate.

either they are co-occuring disorders that were already there masked by the substance abuse or vice versa.
I am an anxiety suffer or was, and i used to self medicate i was also a drug addict
Mr. Bongwater said:
she was on meds for longest time then she stopped, now shes in the hospital, i never knew anything about it until today
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she stopped taking them because she felt like she was normal again like she didnt neeed them but they were the reason she felt normal.
if she is in the hospital they will hold her in the mental health war for 72 hours for stabilization, then they will integrate her to a less shut down ward of the mental health department and give her benefits and privileges, she will see a psychiatrist and a doctor and a counselor who will work together to get a better regime for her, as well as get to the root of her triggers and mental health problem.
she is in good hands, she will receive great treatment as long as she is open about her problems.

Ultimately she most likely never told you due to the stigmas of mental health problems in our day and age, it makes you afraid to tell people additionally her specific disorder is almost always attributed to sexual child abuse so she most likely is hiding a skeleton in her closet that isnt comfortable to speak about.
 
Mr. Bongwater

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sunni said:
that is common with anxiety and ptsd suffers, they will self medicate.

either they are co-occuring disorders that were already there masked by the substance abuse or vice versa.
I am an anxiety suffer or was, and i used to self medicate i was also a drug addict

she stopped taking them because she felt like she was normal again like she didnt neeed them but they were the reason she felt normal.
if she is in the hospital they will hold her in the mental health war for 72 hours for stabilization, then they will integrate her to a less shut down ward of the mental health department and give her benefits and privileges, she will see a psychiatrist and a doctor and a counselor who will work together to get a better regime for her, as well as get to the root of her triggers and mental health problem.
she is in good hands, she will receive great treatment as long as she is open about her problems.

Ultimately she most likely never told you due to the stigmas of mental health problems in our day and age, it makes you afraid to tell people additionally her specific disorder is almost always attributed to sexual child abuse so she most likely is hiding a skeleton in her closet that isnt comfortable to speak about.
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what were you addicted to? if you don't mind me asking
 
abe supercro

abe supercro

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ordered an aromatherapy diffuser today, essential ylang ylang ready to go for calm relaxation.
The Titan 2 was shipped yesterday for the other vapor therapy. now w a portable vaporizer, i'll be able to leave the house again! Jk, heh. Ty @Singlemalt
 
mr sunshine

mr sunshine

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sunni said:
mm im quite a bit older then you think, but yes i agree.
as for the paper it will be there when im ready or not ready for it.
ive had a family crisis going on for about 6 months now, and it has reached it peak at the moment which is causing me to withdraw from my education.
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I I've literally been looking at my screen for 7 minutes searching my head for the right words to type. I wanted to make you feel better or make you laugh to take your mind off things..but I couldn't. Your situation is extremely fucked up, it makes me very sad that your going threw this. It's unfair but it's the way it has to be because that's the way it is...you're going to do great things. Huge things your going to help people. You already do every day. That's why your making the choices your making..all this pain is just future motivation your only 24 stop acting old. You're right on track remember you're living your life. I think your doing great...
 
Mr. Bongwater

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sunni said:
anything and everything i could get my hands on
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haha yup, same here i tried everything what i could get my hands on also, pills was what i was hooked on for so long though, i love noddin off, exactly why i'll never try that herion garbage i know i'll never quit

meth is just as bad though and i tried that a bunch of times, that shit is from hell you really do get hooked first time doing it unlike pills and coke. on that stuff you'd jump out a window just to do something if your bored and feel like it was the best decision you ever made in your life

glad to see your off that shit though, its a sin to see girls like you go down that road :-(
 
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Skuxx

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mr sunshine said:
I I've literally been looking at my screen for 7 minutes searching my head for the right words to type. I wanted to make you feel better or make you laugh to take your mind off things..but I couldn't. Your situation is extremely fucked up, it makes me very sad that your going threw this. It's unfair but it's the way it has to be because that's the way it is...you're going to do great things. Huge things your going to help people. You already do every day. That's why your making the choices your making..all this pain is just future motivation your only 24 stop acting old. You're right on track remember you're living your life. I think your doing great...
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Metasynth

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mr sunshine said:
I I've literally been looking at my screen for 7 minutes searching my head for the right words to type. I wanted to make you feel better or make you laugh to take your mind off things..but I couldn't. Your situation is extremely fucked up, it makes me very sad that your going threw this. It's unfair but it's the way it has to be because that's the way it is...you're going to do great things. Huge things your going to help people. You already do every day. That's why your making the choices your making..all this pain is just future motivation your only 24 stop acting old. You're right on track remember you're living your life. I think your doing great...
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Fuck. You just earned yourself a reach around, Sir.
 
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