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lidssolow

lidssolow

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MojoRison said:
^^^Does your friend know about this site, because I think you've explained yourself pretty well, now if only she could hear it ;-)

Honesty is always the best policy
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I agree here. What do you have to lose? Even if she doesn't like what you have to say, it sounds like you wont be friends for much longer anyway.
 
Total Head

Total Head

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MojoRison said:
^^^Does your friend know about this site, because I think you've explained yourself pretty well, now if only she could hear it ;-)

Honesty is always the best policy
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the girl knows where i stand. i already threatened to wear black to the wedding. it's just that it's different when her girl is actually manufacturing situations to create tension with her friends instead of just talking shit. that's just insane. on one hand i want to explain why i'm not there, but on the other hand i don't want to be the one that starts a fight between them. there's no way to explain myself without making her girl look like a twat, and that's part of the plan. she gets this girl to stop coming around by painting all her friends as making trouble in their relationship when they speak up, and then boom. banned. it's not like it's easy to find good friends and we've been close for 15 years. it just irks me that it's going down this way.
 
sunni

sunni

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Total Head said:
i feel like i'm on some cheesy drama filled reality show.

i've been friends with this girl for over 15 years. she's a lesbian and she's getting married in september. i swear her girl is trying to turn her against what's left of her friends. today is my friend's birthday and her girl JUST texted me about a surprise party she's throwing her tonight knowing full well it's also another friend's birthday tomorrow and there's a big party tonight, to which both of these girls were already invited and declined.

i swear this chick wants my friend to get pissed at me for not showing up so i can be one more person on the black list. there's a whole list of friends who she's literally "not allowed" to spend time with if she wants her relationship to work. now this twat girl of hers springs a surprise party on me, pretending like she had to sneak my number from the girl's phone when she's texted me a dozen other times without a problem, mostly to talk crazy shit at me. plus i saw her in person yesterday at a friend's wake.

i feel bad because it's her 30th birthday but i'm the only one who can even stand her girlfriend because she won't let her hang out with any of her old friends but me. so now it looks like instead of forbidding the girl to hang out she's going to try to get her pissed at me instead. their whole relationship is ridiculous and her girl is a nutbag. it's pretty fucked up for a 15 year friendship to be contingent on a decree from some broad who everyone tried to warn the girl against.

sorry to whine about this cheesy shit. i feel like i'm in a corny after school special about relationships.
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well hate to say it but your friend will never side with you, she will always side with her lover, and thats how that goes, your friend realizes that her old friends wont chill with her anymore yet she still chooses her lover because thats what we do , we always will pick the lover over the friends all too common mistake.
 
ClaytonBigsby

ClaytonBigsby

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Total Head said:
the girl knows where i stand. i already threatened to wear black to the wedding. it's just that it's different when her girl is actually manufacturing situations to create tension with her friends instead of just talking shit. that's just insane. on one hand i want to explain why i'm not there, but on the other hand i don't want to be the one that starts a fight between them. there's no way to explain myself without making her girl look like a twat, and that's part of the plan. she gets this girl to stop coming around by painting all her friends as making trouble in their relationship when they speak up, and then boom. banned. it's not like it's easy to find good friends and we've been close for 15 years. it just irks me that it's going down this way.
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Momma always said, "everyone else can't be wrong". I think you should tell your friend how you feel. Keep it real. Point out that she has lost everyone, and possibly you as the last, for her "love". Point out that is not healthy and if her "love" truly loved her, she would accept all of her friends. This is not something new, this is real life. What you are describing is a sickness and your friend is being dragged down. Do everything you can now, before they do get married and it is too late. As the noob said, your day is coming, so you might as well speak your mind. Having to give up ALL of your friends for one person should be a huge red flag.

Sorry you are having such a bad week.





Edit: Unless you and all of your friends are a bunch of junkies, and her love is saving her........ Dig deep. If that's the truth, tell her to run like the wind and move on.
 
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minnesmoker

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OK, dude... Last night we drunkenly talked about growing at a local bar. The boss lady was there, trying to keep me on a leash. So, PM me the name of the band and the singer she knew that got us talking.
 
ClaytonBigsby

ClaytonBigsby

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God Damn! That was up there with FDD.











PS

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to sunni again.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to minnesmoker again.
 
Total Head

Total Head

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ClaytonBigsby said:
Momma always said, "everyone else can't be wrong". I think you should tell your friend how you feel. Keep it real. Point out that she has lost everyone, and possibly you as the last, for her "love". Point out that is not healthy and if her "love" truly loved her, she would accept all of her friends. This is not something new, this is real life. What you are describing is a sickness and your friend is being dragged down. Do everything you can now, before they do get married and it is too late. As the noob said, your day is coming, so you might as well speak your mind. Having to give up ALL of your friends for one person should be a huge red flag.

Sorry you are having such a bad week.





Edit: Unless you and all of your friends are a bunch of junkies, and her love is saving her........ Dig deep. If that's the truth, tell her to run like the wind and move on.
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mauny pardons but i ad a drunk tonite and its like this: fuck that crustyh whore and her crusty whore madness. i told her that it was nonmsenseand we'ew gpmma hqve a eart to heat tommorrow. i've been there for yars. fuck that wench. i texted her and told er that this shit was fucked up. it's not right. o've known her or over a decade a nt thi bitch is gonna try to fudk it up. she xoulnswvwb ximw to RHW party tonite. shit is fucked up. people from out childhood was there and whe couldn't evn come because her bitch is fucking craay. sorry fot the drunk but what tbe fuck. ot's my friend and whe acn't even hang out with her peeos. fuck that bitch were ginna have beef. sme old ladyt gave me a ride home from the party becaue she cares. does that bitch fare? sbe wants us all dead and weve bent there forevwr. shes just ome slut. im important and people onling are better breinds than this bitvch. shes just a troublemaker and she wants to xcontrol that girl. i give a shit and i tried to asay happy birthdY BUT SHE didnt get back to me. she ahs real friends but shes all fucked up over this girsl. it a bunch of bullshit
 
sunni

sunni

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Total Head said:
mauny pardons but i ad a drunk tonite and its like this: fuck that crustyh whore and her crusty whore madness. i told her that it was nonmsenseand we'ew gpmma hqve a eart to heat tommorrow. i've been there for yars. fuck that wench. i texted her and told er that this shit was fucked up. it's not right. o've known her or over a decade a nt thi bitch is gonna try to fudk it up. she xoulnswvwb ximw to RHW party tonite. shit is fucked up. people from out childhood was there and whe couldn't evn come because her bitch is fucking craay. sorry fot the drunk but what tbe fuck. ot's my friend and whe acn't even hang out with her peeos. fuck that bitch were ginna have beef. sme old ladyt gave me a ride home from the party becaue she cares. does that bitch fare? sbe wants us all dead and weve bent there forevwr. shes just ome slut. im important and people onling are better breinds than this bitvch. shes just a troublemaker and she wants to xcontrol that girl. i give a shit and i tried to asay happy birthdY BUT SHE didnt get back to me. she ahs real friends but shes all fucked up over this girsl. it a bunch of bullshit
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a tad drunk? LOL :) a bit more than tad my dear girls suck! throw rocks at em
 
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