the real story

i recently had a bad time with another user here a female.Now shes slandering my name. unacceptable.I will not stoop to her level and try to publicly humiliate her but heres the real story.This woman sings up here and starts saying shes got all these conquistador seeds. she says shes looking to trade or give them away. im like awesome. her pm isnt working so she posts her e mail.i email her along with a few others. and she sends me her phone number(i shoulda known then. i mean who gives a stranger their phone number.)Anywhoo i call her and 2 min into the conversation i feel like im being interviewed for a date.and says she wants to meet (cause im fairly close to her location)and have dinner.Im thinking ut oh but clearly said i dont plan on spending alot of cash and dont really wanna hang out.She sounds rejected but says cool.Ok the day im supposed to go. i chicken out and send a e mail saying i cant come.I get a angry email back saying i blew her off.I feel bad and still want the seeds so i mailed her again saying things like i think your cool. we have things in common would like to still meet you someday bla bla bla.(im trying to butter her up).Any way i get no responce and should have left her alone. but stupid me figures i can still get these seeds.(im kinda a subcool fan and these genetics she has cant be obtained anywhere else.)Anyway a week or so gose by and i start seeing her pop up in my threads.So again being full of my self im thinking this chic digs me and i can get these seeds.im a idiot.Any way i showed up in her thread and offered some friendly advice. then i get a reply "if you arent growing conquistador then please dont get in my thread because its getting long.but she is asking the others to verify all the things ive told her about conquistador. They did.Anyway i got mad for a sec. and wrote That im the one who gave her the info freely then even tried to offer advice on her grow. only to get told its not wanted.So i said she is a typical girl using and schoomzing for her own selfish means.Then she flips out i mean nutso and starts saying im stalking her and wont leave her alone. and trying to kill my charater. And all i did was try to help.Now its clear shes got sivere mental problems.Thats why i wont say her name. but be carefull who you talk to online. i guess is the moral of the story.Ilearned my lesson the hard way.

ya u did i learned the hard way 2!!!

just run the next time u sence someone is phsyco....

uv got good rep here anyway so dont worry... i heard nothing anyway

Dude, she could be a pig dog.

It makes me sad that people get so upset online, even more so when it's on a site like this, such a nice community then people go and start being jerks, slandering people who just try to help..that makes me upset a bit lol, I feel bad for you bud.


word to all you bastards out there who want to shy away from the good vibes, shame on you.

shammmeeeeeee on you.

just sit back, relax, and toke up, stop being grumpy people.

Ahhh, Wall Of Text, None Cares, Smoke Some Weed

no shes prob. not a cop just pissed u didnt meet her

she could have been a pig if u were buying/selling weed to her but just seeds..no

mad at there daddys is right... not enough attention prob

smokintreez said:

no shes prob. not a cop just pissed u didnt meet her

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excatly but why start bashing me like that. saying im stalking her and trying to get me banned. i invited the mods to investigate. any way i put her on my ignore list. Why not just ignore me? why try to blow it all out of proportion.and be a drama queen? unreal

cause she is feeling "rejecked" and now she wants to hurt u.. it prob makes her feel powerfull

see this is why for centuries men were considerd to be the stronger sex.We can seperate fantasy from reality.And dont lash out with irrational, emotional tangents.

--- Original Message ----
From: [email protected]
To: Little Bat <[email protected]>
Sent: Tuesday, June 17, 2008 4:51:26 PM
Subject: practical

hey checked out prices and it would cost me 50 bucks to get to (your town) and back. and that is just not practical. not to mention carrying live mj clones . however i would still verry much like to get some conquistador beans. if you would be into sending me some that would be verry cool.and if you find yourself in (my town) then id gladly hook you up with some clones. any way it was nice to meet another lover of weed close to home. send a reply and ill give you mailing info. all my best

MY RESPONSE:

I just sat in the restaurant for an hour trying to call you and getting the voice mail of some guy named John!!!

Grrrrr.

HIS RESPONSE:


.hmmessage P { margin:0px;padding:0px;} body.hmmessage { FONT-SIZE:10pt;FONT-FAMILY:Tahoma;} im sooooo sorry i feel like a idiot i honestly felt that cause you didnt e mail me that mabey you were a little uneasy and changed your mind. john is my roommate hes in rohde island.im broke i left my career at ups a year ago and have had trouble finding work. not to mention im a complete pot head. so my phone is off. Any way the seeds aside i would like to meet you still if you dont feel like im a complete dick. you seem intresting to me. its weird i thought we had a love connection on the phone. and we have things in common. are you single? ive got a small harvest soon like 3 days then another 3 to dry. and i should be able to swing the train ride and mabey a inexpensive dinner to make up for it.Did you really sit at the restaraunt? listen moneywise im pathetic im moderatly talented not completly unatractive im a little impulsive but im honest and sincere and a pretty good guy and i grow pretty nice herb. balls in your court. sorry for the miss communication. e mail me back and ill call you on thursday nite. mabey we could talk if your into it. be good-G

MY RESPONSE:

I feel sort of bad saying this, but I have an insanely full life and a group of great friends I hardly ever get to see. I already have so many people in my life I want to spend time with and can't that I don't really have time to develop new relationships right now. Plus, I'm broke too, and I smoke, but I'm insanely motivated and genuinely living my dream and busting my ass to do it. I need to have people around me who are doing the same, and who are actively engaged in making art or books or music or doing scientific research and working hard to get those things out into the world. That's just where I'm coming from right now. And yes, I'm single, but it's by choice; I came out of a major relationship less than a year ago and I have zero interest in dating anyone at all right now.

It was nice talking to you on the phone, but I kind of felt like I was just talking about what I did. No offense, but when you're a girl and you tell a guy you're a dancer, he tends to immediately obsess on it and ask you if you're single. Your reaction was one I get a lot of. EVERYONE is fascinated by it! I do hope you'll find some dance to watch if you really do have an interest.

And last but not least -- forgive me, I'm a writer, I'm a spelling fanatic -- it's "maybe." As in, "it may be." That's the root of the word.

I don't mind sending you a few of these seeds if you give me your address.

THEN I GET A CREEPY EMAIL TELLING ME HOW I'M ARROGANT, FULL OF SHIT, AND AM ACTUALLY SAYING THESE THINGS BECAUSE I WATCHED HIS YOUTUBE VIDEOS (I didn't) AND I THINK HE'S UGLY. UNFORTUNATELY, I DELETED IT BECAUSE IT SCARED ME.

THEN I GET THIS:

sorry bout that, you never owed me a explanation.my mind went from seed interest to love interest. sometimes i get lonely.and when we talked. i was thinking wow we have things in common. let my mind drift.then when i read your email i felt like you were judging me and in correctly.i do apoligize sincerly. I still dont spell verry well.Im really not a dick.i just dont like rejection.(who dose?)anyway from the things you have told me like your following your heart and dreams. and your intelligence you have earned my respect.I hope you would still consider gifting me a few connie seeds.i would still trade a f-13 clone.this will be my last e mail. unless i hear back. i figure ive allready made a ass out of myself.

MY RESPONSE:

I'm a bit confused, when you last wrote me you told me I was arrogant and you were happily single and the fact that I was a dancer was a turnoff and you weren't asking me out. Now you *were* asking me out and suddenly you respect me. It seems like you're loving me one minute and hating me the next and this is all on the basis of one phone conversation!! I was happy to give you some seeds, but you stood me up, didn't call, and then sent me an email telling me how unattractive I am. I am a woman you've never met! Please don't invest these huge emotions in every woman with whom you have a conversation -- at least try actually meeting them first!

Good luck to you.

WHAT HAS HAPPENED IN THE THREADS SINCE I SENT THE ABOVE EMAIL. I HAVE IGNORED ALL OF THIS:

In which he writes me a poem trying to get my seeds:

https://www.rollitup.org/grow-journals/83591-littlebats-first-grow-08-a-3.html

In which he refers to me as a groupie in Subcool's thread:

https://www.rollitup.org/subcools-old-school-organics/60437-subcool-seeds-5.html

In which he corrects an intentional misspelling in my icon:

https://www.rollitup.org/organics/83309-willow-bark-extract-3.html

In which he posts the same comment in an additional thread:

https://www.rollitup.org/subcools-old-school-organics/84937-great-riu-conquistador-grow-08-a-9.html

In which he lashes out again in his own thread:

https://www.rollitup.org/inspired-art/86864-bat-bud.html#post1030586

I was ignoring him through all of this. I really debated posting this; I didn't want to perpetuate the drama. But the vitriol is getting so out of control I felt I should post this now to warn and hopefully protect other women. PLEASE, WOMEN, WATCH OUT HERE!!!!!!! This is, unfortunately, the kind of thing that can happen when you turn a guy down. I was an idiot -- NEVER give anyone you meet online your phone number!!!

MODS, this is the email exchange I offered to send you, if you need the PMs I've gotten from him as well I can send you those too. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Please help me end the harassment. I just want this to end and to be left alone.

Woot! popcorn!!

Now this is the shit movies are made of these days. It's why they all suck.

Psycho girl meets idiot stoner. More at 11

Yes thats right people 1st she saved the emails (weeks old)
then she edits them ,changes my words and posts them here.

this all seems a little elementary.
its the internet after all theres 10294783750987325 more people to converse with.

you both should go your separate ways and stop bad mouthing each other.

shit didnt work out, move on.

This right here is a shining example of why people who meet on the internet should never try to meet in person.

LMAO! -grabs the popcorn and candy- the show must go on!

I'm putting my chips on littlebat considering she can at least write a literate sentance.

hahahahaha

im not sure guys but i think no one here uses this site to "TRADE" anything (catch the drift)

plus only meet if you have a picture trust me and even then make sure you tellem your turnin right back around if the pic does not look like them or was a pic of them when they were "skinny"


ill tell you what some of the most freakish dates can occur without pics


but with pics with pics my friend the most freakyest dates can occur on the regular


hell i even said fuck it a couple times and fucked the fat ones too

damn skinny picture trickers

true, i'll put 100 on littlebat!