I tried to raise mine all the same, 1 is addicted to h and also spent most of last year locked up
prior to being placed in a mental hospital. One a few years younger who works for advanced nutrients of
all places and lives on his own and willingly visits me. The third will graduate from high school with an associates.
In fairness the older made a mistake at a an early age. But I agree, no matter how poorly they turn out
if you wouldn't have invested yourself in the process they could be much worse off.