Threesomes...your experience and comments

THseaman said:

A good 3 sum costs $1000 and involves 2, $350/hr Vegas hookers who are both fit and into girls, $150 Hotel room and $150 in cocaine. If all these steps are met, you are guaranteed to have an enjoyable 3sum.

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purplekitty7772008 said:

Then why the hell did you get married and commit yourself to one woman for the rest of your life if you knew you were going to be a cheating dickwad? I'm not trying to be rude, but I've been cheated on. It hurts like nothing you will ever imagine.

To put all you've got; your emotions, tender-loving care, time,and trust (not to mention genitals) into a relationship and be betrayed really fucking hurts.

Its quite apparent you think with your dick, which only shows that you haven't grown up yet, or in other words that you're immature. Even though you are 33. (or however old you are, I forgot. Sorry)

I dunno if you've ever taken a Psych 110 class, but its apparent you're stuck in the genital stage and everything still evolves around your dick. Everyone doesn't make it to the highest stage of cognitive development, which we can plainly see in you. You haven't learned that the brain controls everything from emotions to hormones, and the result of that is, you being a cheater. You may think you can't control it, but that only makes you weak-minded.

I will give you some advice and tell you to get a divorce. Its not right that
you're betraying your wife even though you already know this.

I can guarantee WHEN she finds out, she'll be hurting more than she
would if you would have just been truthful and broke it off.

Betrayal hurts more than the truth; obviously. So if you do care about her (which I'm not sure you do since you're cheating on her) just break it off and make it easier on the both of you.

OR

Instead of cheating on your wife, why don't you try talking her into
doing one with you instead of behind her back? She might like the idea.
(Unless you've already tried to no avail....)


and btw....
I am in a relationship where my significant other and myself actually
enjoy talking about meeting other couples.

Its just a matter of time until we find the right one.
Its all about open communication and trust.

Good luck bro.


And I also agree with Stoney, its not right to play Russian Roulette with your wife's reproductive system. Some stds viruses are so small they can go right through those condoms. Some give no symptoms, and by the time you figure out you have it, your reproductive organs have gone to shit which means no kids.

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DubsFan said:

The only difference between me and other men is I'm admitting what I'm doing. My goal in this thread is to discuss threesomes and yes I asked for comments. If you've noticed I've never complained about my marriage or commented about the sex. As far as giving my wife an STD...well, you're all assuming we have sex. LOL

Why did I get married? The same reason you did or plan on. Stuff doesn't always work out. We're trying to figure out what to do.

Here is the lowdown. Men marry women hoping they won't change. Women marry men hoping they will. That's the easiest way to break down my scenario without getting into it too much. I'm not happy, she's not happy, we both love each other but that doesn't mean we're meant to be together.

There is no way she would try anything like what we're talking about. Like I said in my original post. I don't need threesomes. I need one good girl (for that night ).

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purplekitty7772008 said:

Well I do sincerely hope that you guys figure out what will happen.
Sorry that you're in a sexless marriage...(at least that was implied)

Good luck and enjoy your threesomes.

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MMJSpots said:

My friend had a threesome with two dudes.. Bigger problem is he is a dude too, so thats triple cockmogling

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gogrow said:

i dont know bro.... it kinda sounds to me like you're chasing a rainbow on this whole idea bro... where the "addictions" come in IMO. There comes a point where you realize that its all pretty much the same.... sex is sex is sex... thats why it tends to get kinkier as you look for that "pornstar" or mindblowing experience you speak of... you can have it, but "pornstar sex" is only gonna be that awesome while your having it... right afterward, it was just catchin a nut, and will be remembered as such.... or maybe as, "that was one nasty bitch".

if you want a mindblowing, memorable experience, (IMO & experience at least) you should spend a few dollars on some hallucinogens for you and this wife of yours.... giggle/laugh together at first, fuck like insane rabbits during the peak, and then spend some time talking to each other and actually communicating and figuring out why you, that supposedly both love each other, are unhappy......

you will remember that experience for the rest of your life .... just my opinion though....

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DubsFan said:

Threesomes are very very popular. For anyone to say that Nobody has had one except pornstars is out of their mind.

The two girls I will hopefully be spending some time with in the coming weeks are very sexually confident. There is always something for one of them or me to do while two people are getting down. I could write a book on what the third person could be doing while two people were having sex.

Both of these girls have not had a two guy threesome but did say the idea of sucking and fucking sounds great. They also said it's a lot of hard work and would really just rather have a great guy and another soft hairless beautiful women than two dudes. I'm a little different compared to most guys. I manscape...I keep my junk in pornstar shape cause you never know when the opportunity will land on (litteraly) your lap. My hair is always fresh, shaved chest, I'm in good shape, nice SoCal tan...and the icing on the cake...I wear a speedo. The Speedo itself has not gotton me laid but it's a major topic of discussion when I'm out. The girls always want to see it...I'm not shy so I slide down the pants in the front a little, then they get to see that I'm not a hairy mess and that I'm in good shape. The ice has just been broken. It's a package deal.

I date some really beatiful women and my friends want to know the secret. It's not a secret. They are the female version of me. In shape, clean, well manicured and so on. You attract what it is you are. If you want to date beautiful women you generally don't have to have money, you just need to make yourself a little more attractive.

I'm about a 7 and always date up. No need for me to settle for a 6 when meeting the 8's and 9's is a viable option.

A buddy of mine has bad teeth, messy hair, he doesn't look clean. His pad is a fucking disaster. Guess what he gets. Nasty heffers with bad breath.

You date what it is you are. There is always some room to date "up" but I'm talking the standard stuff here.

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THseaman said:

You sound like a complete fag. Get ahold of yourself man.

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DubsFan said:

She doesn't do drugs. You guys are killing me with the marriage talk. Plenty of people divorce that love each other. I knew when I started this thread I shouldn't have wrote that in. You all get so distracted with trying to save something that someone doesn't want to save.

Addiction? I don't consider the pursuit of good sex addiction. Addiction certainly involves a repetitive action of some type. That is not the case with what I'm talking about. I said earlier there are three types of sex. Making love, sex and fucking like porn stars. There is a time and place for all three. I'm currently in pursuit of porn star sex.

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gogrow said:

not judging you bro.... just my stoned, neo-freudian, psychoanalysis of your posts in this thread

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