Trust issues

Take control of the relationship. Her accusing you of not trusting her is a form of a threat: She is counting on your being so afraid of upsetting her that you tell her whatever she wants. Don't do this, it will be how you interact for the rest of your time together.

You are the man, you are in charge. Act like it. Nobody likes a pushover.

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You're already fucked, man. Trust no one but yourself...This is exactly how my Dad got busted... What do you think the first thing she is going to do when you guys break up or get in a huge fight or something? People do stupid shit when they're angry...This is the downfall of most growers.
If I were u I would kill the indo and tell her your done growing. Then, just wait till spring and do your outdoor without her knowing.....Dude, I know she's your g/f but you can't trust her with this. Growing's a lonely game.

well it all comes back to what i said... make your life simple and kill her... no worries then

hey lacy...cool neighnours...lucky u! cheers!

Lacy said:

and my 2 neighbours know but that is because I want to be able to toke outdoors and grow without feeling paranoid and worried. They are totally cool with it and understand the situation. I love my neighbours.

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You haven't said how long you have been with this girl. The only people who know about my plants are ones I would trust with my life. My husband and my two best friends (who I split seeds with and they are also growing). I also have dirt on each one of them as well, but when push comes to shove I'de take jail time over hurting them and I know they would do the same.

You know your girl - is it in her to be vicious or revengeful? How has she reacted in past break ups with other guys, does she let the relationship go or does she actively seek out ways to fuck over ex's? How much has she trusted you with her secrets? Those are all factors I would take into account.

teach her to grow with the indoors and tell her to find her own fucking spot. lol im j/k.
if she already knows about the indoor then you may as well show her the outdoor unless you are worried about the security of the plants because of her blabbing. in other words, show her but dont let her get you riped due to advertising.
my wife dosent smoke, and she chooses to stay ignorant about most of my growing. she likes it that i dont spend as much cash on weed though. lol

Just take her to see the plants at night she'll never know where she is. Make a couple of pointless cut backs and she'll be able to see them without knowing where they are. I bet you're thinking you shouldn't have opened your mouth now, huh?

no see, the thing is, she is wondering why im vegging out clones and i was just like "oh see what you do is start them inside over the winter and have them all ready to go for the next season...blah...blah" and she asked where i was going to plant them...at first i told her in the mayor's flowerbed, made her laugh then she asked again and i told her i hadn't told anyone about any outdoor grows especially not given away any spots...but the take her at night thing was clever, im not that deceptive, but i thought it was a good idea non the less

Just don't get in any fights with her...She's got you by the balls now. Women can be vindictative when they've been scorned.