how long did you date? not that this holds any statistical ground, but "people" say that it can take twice as long as you dated to get over her. IE if you dated for 1½ years it would take 3 years to get over her. i never really found it true until i looked back and applied it. but maybe 3 years is just a decent amount of time to build back what was broken.
haha nah, i don't know your ex, but it seems that we've encountered girls with similar traits. i got a restraining order put on me. the day of my 14 month anniversary, with a picnic basket full of lunch and my mom's car that took hours of begging to borrow. she wanted to grow up blah blah she was changing(she had just become a sophomore in highschool haha) but the restraining order came out of no where. didnt talk to the love of my life, my best friend, for months. knowing she was going out partying, losing me, and not calling. but you know, after months of conceivement.. i had already been lost.
she texted me 3 months later: "YOU GAVE ME CHLAMYDIA YOU MOTHERFUCKER BLAH BLAH"
me: "bitch, i dont have chlamydia you got it from one of your little highschool hook up buddies HAHA!"
evil people will be punished, whether by their own hand or someone elses. question is, are you going to feel bad for her when it happens? or will you have already moved on? the balance is in your hand. its hard to slap the taste of your love and best friend out of your mouth.. but i hope the community here can help!