I agree with about everything sarah22 said in this thread. Reading through your posts on here I see that we have a lot in common and our beliefs are about the same.
I also used to be a pretty big skeptic and not really spiritual. I was always open minded, but sometimes you need to see proof for yourself to really believe. Years ago I had a series of experiences that couldnt be explained normally, which led to confusion and curiosity. The curiosity led to doing research to try and get to the bottom of the experiences. Ive now been doing research for years and have read up on most the spiritual and metaphysical topics, throughout the past years Ive continued to have more paranormal and supernatural experiences. These were not 'hallucinations' and 95% of the time the experiences have happened randomly, a few things I have made happen myself.
If I were to list every one of these experiences on here it would take hours, but I dont have the time and there are some that I really dont feel like talking about. But the experiences pretty much consist of: premonitions, having dreams and thoughts that actually occur later, astral projecting (again just 2 nights ago), lucid dreaming, seeing ghosts, UFOs, having the whole atmosphere of a place change when I enter and seeing lights dim or light up, having light bulbs blow up when I near them, feeling presences, seeing orbs, 'feeling' when people die (Ive known people died days before I found out), knowledge from past lives and universal knowledge from the akashic records and many other things. Ive actually had a head/brain mri and ct scan done and Ive been evaluated mentally in the past, nothing is wrong with me, and no Im not some weirdo making up things, hallucinating or trying to get attention. Im just a person who these experiences started happening to or maybe Im more in tune with then than the average person?
And what did I learn from all of this? all of these things are real. Ive done research on everything from the supernatural topics, conspiracies, string theory, aliens, spirit realm, etc most of it is true the hoaxes become obvious after a while. Over 90% of whats going on around us we cant notice normally. The physical plane which we exist on is very shallow and narrow compared to the whole picture, modern society keeps it even smaller. Im not sure of how much freedom we have as Ive noticed that almost everything happens for a reason and theres no such thing as a coincidence. A big part of it that Ive noticed with people who are more 'in tune' is simply the fact that they realize a lot of these things are happening while the same things could happen to others but they just dont realize the connection between things.
At the same time there is a "balance" which sarah22 also mentioned earlier that you have to keep between the physical and the spiritual (more deeper things, etc). Ive been on both sides of the fence, there were times where I was too much into the physical which can cause problems, and then there were times I was too much into those deep topics and the spiritual side which also caused problems to my life and health, especially 1-2 years ago. The physical plane existence can be seen as 'holographic' in the matrix, etc but its real as well.
I know this was long but relating back to the thread topic, you really have to experience and know for yourself like what happened with me and others like sarah22. There is a soul, there is definitely existence after your body dies and before you were born. When you research these topics I know they can be 'sobering' and 'scary', trust me I went through those phases to the extreme. Keep the balance, gain knowledge that your comfortable with, dont be scared, there is nothing to fear or panic about, live your life and just be the best you can be while having fun and enjoying your life.