What men really want.......

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joe macclennan

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hereshegrows said:
hmmm, I read somewhere that men are attracted to ladies wearing high heels because it makes them appear more venerable...like the guy sees the woman as needing to be protected and they like that. I'm not sure that is true but wearing heels certainly does get their attention.

I'm not sure what the younger generation guys like but I know when I was in my twenties, the guys liked the girls who were more feminine. If I worn out jeans, I might get a whistle, if I worn out a skirt, I'd get all kinds of attention. Guys like to be proud of their ladies but they also want to be appreciated themselves. If you are in a relationship, one of the most hurtful things you can do is deny your man sex. If the woman can cook, she gets bonus points. They hate being questioned in front of their guy friends. Most of them say they hate makeup but yet are usually attracted to the females wearing it...they just don't know it. Men love comfort, most would prefer never to wear a suit or tie in their lives. I believe most guys are very straight forward, if they ask a question, they want a yes or no answer. Some women will try to give an explanation before the answer and that frustrates them. Women use way more words to get a point across then men do. I envy the relationships men form with one another, they seem to do it easier then females. Some guys could do with an extra helping of patience but for the most part, you all are pretty cool. Us ladies can get moody and that's got to be difficult to deal with.
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yup...........:joint:


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hereshegrows

hereshegrows

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I see the question asked very often, "What hair colour does a guy prefer?"...I was wondering, would hair a persons natural hair colour alone stop a guy from wanted to date a girl. I always thought this a silly kind of question because for me, it's the last thing I would think about...they don't even have to have hair for that matter. My hair is an ambiguous color, some argue red, others call me blond but to put a name on it, it's "honey blond". I don't think anyone has ever said, ewwww, I hate your colour to me or any of my friends. Is it an issue for anyone?
 
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fr3d12

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hereshegrows said:
I see the question asked very often, "What hair colour does a guy prefer?"...I was wondering, would hair a persons natural hair colour alone stop a guy from wanted to date a girl. I always thought this a silly kind of question because for me, it's the last thing I would think about...they don't even have to have hair for that matter. My hair is an ambiguous color, some argue red, others call me blond but to put a name on it, it's "honey blond". I don't think anyone has ever said, ewwww, I hate your colour to me or any of my friends. Is it an issue for anyone?
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Personally speaking hair colour is not important to me,I used to get into so much trouble with the ex because I never noticed when she had her hair done,she would even change the colour albeit the shading and I would not notice.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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potpimp said:
High heels accentuate your lovely gluteal cleft (translation for the guys: makes her ass look good). I think you are absolutely right on all the rest; some very good observations there. You my dear are a prize!
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Yup yup. Also make the calves look sculpted.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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GOD HERE said:
So liking feminine looking women and not banging hairy women makes me a fag? lol ok, got it. I think you're just embarrassed that you said you're hairy, and everyone went "Ew".
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The thing you just quoted said a "smoking hot woman with a trimmed bush"

So all qualities of the woman are ignored? Only thing that makes a woman feminine is waxing down there?

A chick with a fit body, nice booty, perfect tits is rejected by you because of a 1 inch patch of hair?
 
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fr3d12

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There was a study in my country where they asked teenage boys about their perceptions of sex and femininity etc,something like 70% said they didn't know women had pubic hair because all the porn they watched showed the opposite.
The same boys also thought that the woman wanted them to finish on their faces and not inside them.
I'm not sure how accurate or credible the study is but it got quite a bit of radio time here with most commenting on the need to educate the youth blah blah.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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fr3d12 said:
There was a study in my country where they asked teenage boys about their perceptions of sex and femininity etc,something like 70% said they didn't know women had pubic hair because all the porn they watched showed the opposite.
The same boys also thought that the woman wanted them to finish on their faces and not inside them.
I'm not sure how accurate or credible the study is but it got quite a bit of radio time here with most commenting on the need to educate the youth blah blah.
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I do think that porn has an effect on what young boys find appealing. Not even talking about the woman's looks, but the acts that turn them on.

The jizzing on the face or breasts might make the guys feel like they are acting out their favorite money shot or that they are exerting dominance... Idk.

Porn does give an unrealistic view of sex. The men in those videos aren't pumping non stop for an hour and a half. They take all day to film that hour. The women aren't really enjoying the mindless pumping most of the time.

Every woman looks like she is eating her favorite popsicle when blowing a dude too. There are many women who do not like to give blow jobs. Those that do, don't always keep a smile on their face and stare obsessively at the man.
 
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fr3d12

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Flaming Pie said:
I do think that porn has an effect on what young boys find appealing. Not even talking about the woman's looks, but the acts that turn them on.

The jizzing on the face or breasts might make the guys feel like they are acting out their favorite money shot or that they are exerting dominance... Idk.

Porn does give an unrealistic view of sex. The men in those videos aren't pumping non stop for an hour and a half. They take all day to film that hour. The women aren't really enjoying the mindless pumping most of the time.

Every woman looks like she is eating her favorite popsicle when blowing a dude too. There are many women who do not like to give blow jobs. Those that do, don't always keep a smile on their face and stare obsessively at the man.
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I totally agree with what you say.
I also think it reinforces an attitude that makes boys think it's ok to be disrespectful to women and gives them the impression that girls are slutty.
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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When I was 12 we had a video on the changes that puberty brought on. Girls watched one that let them know about underarm, leg and pubic hair. Also about the breasts growing and hips widening. It also educated us on the physical changes the boys would experience. Cracking voices, hair, etc.

Then everyone got sticks of deoderant and maxipads. lol
 
Flaming Pie

Flaming Pie

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Plus most highschools require you to take a health class that covers sexual maturity and all that comes with it.

Media drives most people's perception of what is beautiful.

Chest hair on a man is almost non-existant in media nowadays.
 
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fr3d12

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Again I agree yet in a movie where there's a female full frontal the woman in the scene will have pubic hair,I guess it is still taboo to show a shaven lady.
 
MojoRison

MojoRison

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Believe it or not...I was given this book to read by grandmother


and this one from my grandfather




It was no wonder I had trouble relating to women
 
hereshegrows

hereshegrows

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Lol, I think you relate to everyone very well mojo. I've never once seen you be disrespectful to anyone. Something positive must of taken some where down the line:)
 
MojoRison

MojoRison

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Thank you very much HSG.

I've been told that I tend to be too emphatic when talking about my caring for others, I've been down and I know how I felt when someone seen me for who I was and not the situation I was in. So for better or worse you'll always get a 2nd or 3rd chance with me, life is damn short to have hatred as friend.
 
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