On First point: YES! Until women stop being enslaved by ridiculous requirements, we have only ourselves to blame when men want them…
BUUUUUTT
Shaving armpits ONCE a WEEK? (please tell me you have excruciatingly slow growing hair)
LEGS?? How can you not shave your legs for more than a day or 2?
And the chin hair: this is where I may contradict my first point: A girl with any kind of hair protruding anywhere on the face… hmm… I think that just falls under proper grooming don't you?
I shave my legs daily, year round. I HATE stubble, the way it feels. And all my friends let theirs grow in the winter months… I just can't. It makes me feel most UN-sexy. To each their own I guess, yes, but I DO think there are basic grooming musts: armpits, legs, and ANY facial hair for women, and for men, ears, nose, face (if no beard) must be clean and hair free...