abe supercro
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Right, thank you. I think it ties into justifying anything to marginalize me subtly to feel better about themselves after scapegoating me for financial gain.Why would anyone give you shit over having 4 cats?? What's it to them?
No longer showing up for annual family dinners half way across the country has affected their guilt too I presume. It's easier for them to focus on perceived external vulnerabilities than take responsibility for selling me out. They are lucky I haven't completely given up on them, my deceased mother's sisters mainly, but I don't want to lose the rest of an already small family. So it goes. At least I'm over the furious anger stage which lasted a few years.