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To answer briefly, Jesus Christ is the whole basis of christianity. Without him it is just the old testament and Judaism.
So his words guide christianity. In the bible he speaks very clearly that we are not to judge others. He stopped people from stoning a prostitute. He said, he who is without sin cast the first stone.
More cherry picking.
Matthew 10:34: "Think not that I am come to send peace on earth:
I came not to send peace, but a sword."
Luke 22:36: "He said to them, “But now if you have a purse, take it, and also a bag;
and if you don’t have a sword, sell your cloak and buy one. It is written: ‘And he was numbered with the transgressors’; and I tell you that this must be fulfilled in me. Yes, what is written about me is reaching its fulfillment.”
Plus, according to nearly all denominations of Christianity, Jesus and the Father are one, the whole Holy Trinity are aspects of the same being. Jesus is both fully human and fully divine, and thus "In traditional Christianity, Jesus is the Incarnate second person of the Trinity. He is divine, co-equal with the Father. As such, Jesus in the New Testament cannot hold a respectful disagreement with Yahweh of the Old Testament."
Jesus himself even emphasizes that the laws set out in the Old Testament (like Deuteronomy 13 which commands you to stone your own family to death if they tempt you with foreign gods) are still valid and should be followed: Matthew 5:17: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them 18: For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. 19:
Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
Jesus was also PRACTICED violence. John 2:13: "The Passover of the Jews was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem. In the temple he found those who were selling oxen and sheep and pigeons, and the money-changers sitting there.
And making a whip of cords, he drove them all out of the temple, with the sheep and oxen. And he poured out the coins of the money-changers and overturned their tables. And he told those who sold the pigeons,“Take these things away; do not make my Father's house a house of trade.”
Your cherry picking of only the passages and laws that you support will certainly earn you the title of "least in the kingdom of heaven" (if you make it to heaven, which is doubtful if you have ever worn clothes woven of two different fabrics [Leviticus 19:19]) because you cannot pick and choose which of God's laws to follow. He has not left you that option.