I wish he'd just fucked off like that. I had to fucking leave my own home before he'd realise he couldn't handle the plants so he had to go so I'd come and deal with them. I told him I'd get these ready for him to take but thank fuck he fucked off and stopped being a dick outside cos it would break my heart to have to send them off anywhere, I'd be so worried about them and I couldn't trust anyone to move them now, they're 5ish weeks into flower!
Hahahaha thanks I needed that! The 14 year old is a runaway I helped last year, we were going for a walk with the dog to catch up.
There isn't one while he stays on the other side of the door, gets a bit draining though.
You could if the plants were no longer there. I'd never submit to abuse over a garden. Never never let him inside house again. Change the locks.
I can't look at your avatar. It's burning a hole in the back of my skull through my eyes.
He said to me on the phone before, I'll get you nicked with the lot. I couldn't believe he'd throw that at me! I like your idea. Moving the plants is ridiculous.... But there's nothing stopping me harvesting early, getting rid cheap and moving house before he's expecting them to be harvested. Hmm.
I really think too much emphasis is being put on the 14 year old, I only mentioned him to show how irrational my ex is that he'd kick off like that on a little kid, who had no fucking clue what was going on.
Without disclosing the nature of her relationship to a 14 yr old does sound rather weird for adding that detail. I'm guessing it's her kid or kids friend.
Yeah I get you, just explaining why I haven't just got them out of here. But yes, early harvest has potential, because you're right, he's holding them over me. He said to me the other week after being violent that he dared me to report him, I get to choose whether I keep the plants or get rid of him. When he told me he was coming to check on them every day and if I didn't open the door he'd come through it, after moving out, I said right get them out of my house, you take them, and he shit himself cos he wouldn't have a clue and he needs it as much as I do. But why should he profit from my hard work when his only contribution is to make me a nervous wreck??
I already said, he was a runaway I worked with last year popped into walk the dog with me and catch up on how he's getting on lol, I don't just hang out with random kids but I do have a daughter the same age so I like to keep up with how he's doing.
Cut clones and move them offsite, if you want to keep your genetics. While you are waiting for them to root cut ALL the plants down, hang them whole (no trimming) and get them crispy dry, while cleaning your house so it can withstand a search just in case. It is now time to change the oil in your car. Put all the crispy plants in a large 2mil contractors bag and dump your used motor oil in with them, smush ad libitum. Now invite him over to pick up his 'share' of the harvest shove them out the door and lock it immediately.
but if you do choose that final step PLEASE get video and post it here.