Home-wreckers.

[kevin]

actually she was being flirtatious at work and he began texting and calling her of the evenings, i have no idea if she ever answered or not but its really beside the point. and yeah we broke it off not to long after that anyways. if he had gotten his dick wet he would have gotten a lot more than 3 hits.

i beat my ex wife's ass while her boyfriend cowarded in the corner naked, never touched him. he's not the one that fucked around on me, i wouldn't of cared who made the first move. that was a hard 2 year lesson. if it ever happens to me again i'll just wish them luck and walk away.

 

[beardo]

What do you do when a woman tries to seduce your boyfriend/husband?

What happends if she knows you are with your boyfriend/husband and have a child?

Thoughts on both gender's perspectives...

I would be happy he might not be hounding me for sex as much but I would flip out if he spent any money on the bitch

 

[DSB65]

me3 liking everything makes me happy.

hes just a likeable guy

 

[Pipe Dream]

If you have proof that he is cheating on you, then simply walk away. Seriously it isn't worth starting some incident over it or expecting change. Father of your child or not, move on and let him lie in the bed he made for himself.

 

[Justin00]

i beat my ex wife's ass while her boyfriend cowarded in the corner naked, never touched him. he's not the one that fucked around on me, i wouldn't of cared who made the first move. that was a hard 2 year lesson. if it ever happens to me again i'll just wish them luck and walk away.

To each his own. i have moral obligations that prevent me from hitting a woman, unless said woman hit me first in a way capable of inflicting pain or injury or threatened, and i mean immediately threatened, someone important to me in a dangerous or violent way. also i was not willing to do time for her or him so i let him call the shots rather than attacking him (i will, however admit that had i walked in on them i would prolly have ended up in jail also) and finally if he knew the 2 of you were together then he is just as guilty as her imo.

personally i agree with "pipe dream" in his last post, but i lack that level of humanity. sometimes handing out dews is better than living with debts.

 

[Metasynth]

Nah just add a flag and a pirate ship
Everyone wants to be a pirate...except for ninjas. Damn them

 

[Padawanbater2]

if he knew the 2 of you were together then he is just as guilty as her imo

I disagree with that too. I don't think it's another mans responsibility to ensure your girlfriend stays faithful. Don't get me wrong, I'm a fan of everybody doing the right thing, and I personally wouldn't hook up with a chick who had a boyfriend, but everybody else isn't as considerate as you and I are, and you have to expect that.

The blame falls solely on the one doing the cheating.

 

[wiseguy316]

i will take one for the team and volunteer to bang her out, so she can send him the pics.

 

[Justin00]

if he knew the 2 of you were together then he is just as guilty as her imo

I disagree with that too. I don't think it's another mans responsibility to ensure your girlfriend stays faithful. Don't get me wrong, I'm a fan of everybody doing the right thing, and I personally wouldn't hook up with a chick who had a boyfriend, but everybody else isn't as considerate as you and I are, and you have to expect that.

The blame falls solely on the one doing the cheating.

if a man robs your house is it his fault or the door's for not keeping him out? if he lures your dog into a van with a treat and drives away is it his fault or the dogs? same with your child?

sure you need to get a better door, train your dog better and watch your children closer, but its still as much his fault as it is the door, dog, or child's if he knew they were yours.

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

if a man robs your house is it his fault or the door's for not keeping him out? if he lures your dog into a van with a treat and drives away is it his fault or the dogs? same with your child?
sure you need to get a better door, train your dog better and watch your children closer, but its still as much his fault as it is the door, dog, or child's if he knew they were yours.

Yep, but he must have that knowledge to be culpable.

 

[Padawanbater2]

if a man robs your house is it his fault or the door's for not keeping him out? if he lures your dog into a van with a treat and drives away is it his fault or the dogs? same with your child?

sure you need to get a better door, train your dog better and watch your children closer, but its still as much his fault as it is the door, dog, or child's if he knew they were yours.

Your door, dog and young child do not have the mental capacity to understand what loyalty is, your girlfriend does.

I stand by my statement.

 

[Urca]

personally, id never cheat. just because i wouldnt want to lose a good thing. plus.... i would hope it would never be done to me. it problably will, but still, id never do it

 

[Justin00]

Your door, dog and young child do not have the mental capacity to understand what loyalty is, your girlfriend does.

I stand by my statement.

your point does not contradict mine tho, yes she has the mental capacity to understand loyalty (so do many dogs and kids) but does that make it any less his fault for attempting to take them?

don't get me wrong, i still agree with you about it being her fault also.

i would also like to add in here that my situation took place over 2 years ago and i was only sharing how i dealt with it to possibly aid with the current situation faced by another RUI member. I am happy to debate the validity of my actions with anyone, but lets try not to get to far distracted from the purpose of the topic. I also would not recommend my remedy to anyone else.

 

[stuckonsticky]

Well since im a guy I'm going to reverse the roles here...

If a dude tries to seduce my lady he gets a friendly yet firm warning the first time. If the deuche tries it again, he gets the living shit kicked out of him. If my lady lets him seduce her, she gets kicked to the curb and I'm keeping my kid. She'd be allowed to visit the kid on weekends because I'm nice like that.

could not have been said better..Im also a man

 

[Urca]

lol so question... for guys you seem like you defend your women from being picked up by other guys... but what would be a reason if a guy didnt defend his lady when a guy was trying to hit on her

 

[Winter Woman]

Let's see I think they call it, alienation of affection. I know someone who sued the place where her husband worked and won. His boss had done the nasty with him and they had to admit it in court.

You know what the funniest thing about this is... it's his boss. My uncle also works for the company! She's terrified she's going to lose her job.
They both could lose their jobs easy.

 

[wiseguy316]

lol so question... for guys you seem like you defend your women from being picked up by other guys... but what would be a reason if a guy didnt defend his lady when a guy was trying to hit on her

if he failed to defend her he is a wussy and really didn't want her.

 

[Corso312]

if he failed to defend her he is a wussy and really didn't want her.

if a guy is blatantly flirting with your lady it is not about your bitch..it is about disrespecting you..you beat the guys ass and let him keep the broad if she welcomes such advances

 

[wiseguy316]

i don't condone fighting , but it sure is fun once it starts.

 

[canuckgrow]

What do you do when a woman tries to seduce your boyfriend/husband?

What happends if she knows you are with your boyfriend/husband and have a child?

Thoughts on both gender's perspectives...

grab her, your man and get in a big pile...naked of course...The rest will sort it self out.