hehe, if a guy doesnt go down, he´s either been driven away by some funky female in the past.
or he´s got issues about his manhood.
love that silky satinsmooth feel, ooh get tingles thinking about it. tongue out and drooling bit
why arent guys good in bed?
well, i sucked cause i was always focusing on the orgasm (which really shortens the sex)
and though i later made up for it with some tongue action (if the woman was not too funky)
and a few times gave girls orgasms with my dick (even got a huge hug from one for giving her her first (decidedly no virgin)
well, lets just say in general i got ok marks for tongueplay and no comments on the dickpart
what changed?
well, i really love my wife. not some headthing, not some attraction, not because of her looks or how she is, but because how i feel in the heart around her.
i just love to make that woman happy. and she cares the same for me.
its not about the orgasm, cause i love being with her and she the same about me. its about the intimacy, sharing pleasure.
the orgasm is just the cherry on top of a huge icecream, but now eaten at the last when you are so full the berry just melts in your mouth and you lean back, completely satisfied.
and you actually want to cuddle. (and all your life, she goes, im gone.)
thinking back...what i though was love, was just attraction, someone that just should have been a friend.
not that i regret the sex (would seriously have though if i had gotten aids or something to prevent me from having sex with my wife)
if you think about it, 2 people that are friends, having sex for fun, to scratch that itch, deep massage
but i wasnt looking for sex, wanted it sure, enough to be blinded by it and fooled by it.
but i was looking for love.
so i got hurt and so did girls that were also looking in the wrong place for love, me.
so it depends.
would i fuck around, if i could do it again? not if i knew my wife was out there, but i didnt and wouldnt, so yeah. i would. fuck till i got tired of it.
and i did, well, "broke my heart" often enough to be tired of it and say "if it aint true love, fuck it"
well i guess i wasnt ready, cause i waited 7 years (didnt even care to have sex, looked like a bum most of the time anyway lol)
but here i am, hehe, sometimes want to divorce the wife, but cant stay mad at her and nor she at me (oh been tested somewhat, we arent perfect)
and i cant imagine my life without her (she´s gone, im gone)