Why is it ok to Shower with other Guys and Sometimes not?

VILEPLUME

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So after most sports it accepted that men can all get naked and pile into a shower together and maybe some of them dont even know each other(one of them could be a rapist)

But, I try to save hot water and slip into the shower with my room mate and somehow he has a problem with that? It's not like I'm going to fuck him or anything.

I know it sounds dumb, but really think about it. Oh and I'm not gay, though there is nothing wrong with someone being gay. But culture can be really weird sometimes.
 

dam612

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So after most sports it accepted that men can all get naked and pile into a shower together and maybe some of them dont even know each other(one of them could be a rapist)

But, I try to save hot water and slip into the shower with my room mate and somehow he has a problem with that? It's not like I'm going to fuck him or anything.

I know it sounds dumb, but really think about it. Oh and I'm not gay, though there is nothing wrong with someone being gay. But culture can be really weird sometimes.
chances are: you're sharing a one shower head bathroom, probably standing in a 2.5ftx5ft bathtub. So while your buddy is sudzing his cock and ass hogging the shower head, your standing there cold, staring at either his ass or balls (depending on what side hes washing). thats why is gay and not acceptable to straight men. Athletes share a whole room, with plenty of room and individual heads, and im almost certain these days they are sectioned off at the waist so you have your own stall like shower.
if i was your room mate ide make sure you never hopped in my shower again

edit: try bathing suits if you must shower with your room mate
 

Farfenugen

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Man! You shower with your room mate?? Why on earth would you do that? It is sort of gay in a way, unless you're doing something else like fixing the tiles.
 

GreenGurl

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I love the idea of guys showering together. But I'm pretty queer like that. You aren't saving much water by making your roomie uncomfortable. I'd suggest you just stick to fantasizing about saving hot water, continue to ponder the homophobia in this culture, and leave it at that. ;)
 

VILEPLUME

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chances are: you're sharing a one shower head bathroom, probably standing in a 2.5ftx5ft bathtub. So while your buddy is sudzing his cock and ass hogging the shower head, your standing there cold, staring at either his ass or balls (depending on what side hes washing). thats why is gay and not acceptable to straight men. Athletes share a whole room, with plenty of room and individual heads, and im almost certain these days they are sectioned off at the waist so you have your own stall like shower.
if i was your room mate ide make sure you never hopped in my shower again

edit: try bathing suits if you must shower with your room mate
So if I shower with him in my bathing suit, then it's not gay?
 

ganjames

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the only problem i see is you didn't ask your roommate if he needed you to wash his back.

that shit's common courtesy.
 

VILEPLUME

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no, its still gay imo, but it might make him feel more comfortable about the situation
Ok, let me go ask...

He says it is still gay, but he showers naked with me after every football game with the rest of the team. Maybe I just need to invite more guys into our tub?
 

mak

Active Member
you shower with men and have a pokemon avatar.

poke a man!!!

it concerns me that he would even allow you to shower with him in the first place
 

VILEPLUME

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you shower with men and have a pokemon avatar.

poke a man!!!

it concerns me that he would even allow you to shower with him in the first place
Lawls, what's wrong with pokemon? You telling me you never played the greatest video game ever?
 

dam612

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wait, are you trying to save money, or are you trying to let your boy know that you got the hotts for him?
 

mak

Active Member
you should get a one bedroom apt,one bed,one pillow,same toothbrush while your at it.

excuse...save money
 

Total Head

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So if I shower with him in my bathing suit, then it's not gay?
what's gay is being stuffed in a 2x3 foot space with another grown man reaching over each other for the soap and no doubt rubbing up against each other in uncomfortable ways.

i don't care if you both wear a three piece suit, in that close of quarters it's highly suspect. it sounds uncomfortable on many levels.

plus what if he wanted to jack off or take a leak in there? maybe he has a tiny dick and doesn't want you to see. leave the poor guy be.

if you want to save water get a water saving shower head and only flush the toilet for number two.
 

JustCoasting

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In a hertero world, it's okay to shower in separate stalls. It gets creepy though, if you want to shower in the same stall at home.
 
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