Should you/Would you hit your kids?

[RyanTheRhino]

Why/Why not?

This is a loaded question. When you say hit people automatically assume injury.

I say I would hit my kid, but not like a punch in the face, come on really?.

First off i would never hit a baby or toddler i would say older then 7 years of age. If i did it would be just something like a light slap to the back of the head or pulling their ears

 

[kinetic]

Ryan, my Uncle would grab us by the ear and say "let me stretch that ear out so you can hear me better."

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

Not mad, just don't like you.

No one cares. Stop trolling. If you're going to get involved with the OP's question that's fine. But irrelevant random posts is the exact reason why half of this Thread is Garbage. Try not to Support that.

This is a loaded question. When you say hit people automatically assume injury.

I say I would hit my kid, but not like a punch in the face, come on really?.

First of i would never hit a baby or toddler i would say older the 7 years of age. If i did it would be just something like a light slap to the back of the head or pulling their ears

At 9 months, the only thing they really understand is the word no.. Well, atleast mine does. A simple flick on the hand is enough to get their attention

 

[kinetic]

Yes Spermian, because calling people a crackhead and saying they cant beat you is high brow contribution.

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

That guy was trolling way before I got here. He admitted to smoking crack, AND threatened to beat my ass.
YOU cannot justify your actions by putting it on someone else. It makes you look ignorant

 

[Nice Ol Bud]

That guy was trolling way before I got here. He admitted to smoking crack, AND threatened to beat my ass.
YOU cannot justify your actions by putting it on someone else. It makes you look ignorant

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

WOW! That one brought me back LMAO!

 

[RainbowBrite86]

I have spanked my children. I have NEVER "beaten" my children. Or anyone else, for God's sake. Give me a break. Those are not even close to being on the same level. My children don't often need to be spanked, because they learned quickly that they don't like spankings, and spankings happen when bad behavior is exhibited...so see they avoid said bad behavior. I have a look and a word I can say at any time, in any place, that lets my children know they are on their last chance before a spanking. Usually, that's where it ends. The behavior improves dramatically and we go on with our lives. They have never, ever, been "beaten". I don't leave them with black eyes I leave them with slightly red asses. Which they needed at the time. I have four kids. Four very different personalities. Spanking has worked with all four. My children are obedient and respectful and *happy*. They have boundaries, they have rules, they have consequences. They also have love, they have fun, they know they have safety. Because even my children, as young as they are, know that they have not been beaten, they have been spanked, and they know there's a difference.

 

[kinetic]

spermian is quick to throw names and insults at people then jumps on his high horse to admonish trolling. nice.

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

I have spanked my children. I have NEVER "beaten" my children. Or anyone else, for God's sake. Give me a break. Those are not even close to being on the same level. My children don't often need to be spanked, because they learned quickly that they don't like spankings, and spankings happen when bad behavior is exhibited...so see they avoid said bad behavior. I have a look and a word I can say at any time, in any place, that lets my children know they are on their last chance before a spanking. Usually, that's where it ends. The behavior improves dramatically and we go on with our lives. They have never, ever, been "beaten". I don't leave them with black eyes I leave them with slightly red asses. Which they needed at the time. I have four kids. Four very different personalities. Spanking has worked with all four. My children are obedient and respectful and *happy*. They have boundaries, they have rules, they have consequences. They also have love, they have fun, they know they have safety. Because even my children, as young as they are, know that they have not been beaten, they have been spanked, and they know there's a difference.

In your face Sativa high.....

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

spermian is quick to throw names and insults at people then jumps on his high horse to admonish trolling. nice.

I can't understand how you can't see what you're doing. Get back on topic Kenetic.

 

[kinetic]

it's riu, topics are not set in concrete. Why do you think it's known as Troll It Up around here?

 

[dbkick]

I had an ex that didn't understand times were changing and it was now wrong to assault anybody , including your child , for any reason other than self defense. this was like the late 80s I suppose.
so anyway one of our children did some shit, can't remember wtf it was but she snatches the kid up holds his arm above his head and starts wailing on his ass . and I'm talking open hand spanking his ass. this wasn't my concern I've got hit with some pretty solid objects on the ass, ones that cut air. it was the hold she had on his arm . so I stopped that shit then and there. told her to let the kid go and I better not see that shit again. few years later she divorced me, I should have dropped the bitch.
but if you're going to physically spank a child you can't do it in anger or shit might happen that you regret.

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

I had an ex that didn't understand times were changing and it was now wrong to assault anybody , including your child , for any reason other than self defense. this was like the late 80s I suppose.
so anyway one of our children did some shit, can't remember wtf it was but she snatches the kid up holds his arm above his head and starts wailing on his ass . and I'm talking open hand spanking his ass. this wasn't my concern I've got hit with some pretty solid objects on the ass, ones that cut air. it was the hold she had on his arm . so I stopped that shit then and there. told her to let the kid go and I better not see that shit again. few years later she divorced me, I should have dropped the bitch.
but if you're going to physically spank a child you can't do it in anger or shit might happen that you regret.

I Agree 100%

 

[dbkick]

in the early 70s a teacher or school principal could assault the fuck out of you and nobody would blink an eye. I got "swats" from this fucker that was like 7 foot tall and owned a custom made half inch thick paddle with holes drilled in it . if anything it made me resent the fucker just a little more.

 

[dbkick]

so anybody still spanking their child wanna go back to that stone age shit where a perfect stranger can assault your child with a fucking 1/2 inch thick board with holes drilled in it? shit would make national news today.

 

[Fenian Brotherhood]

in the early 70s a teacher or school principal could assault the fuck out of you and nobody would blink an eye. I got "swats" from this fucker that was like 7 foot tall and owned a custom made half inch thick paddle with holes drilled in it . if anything it made me resent the fucker just a little more.

Being the child not the swatter, I would have hit back. I knew that the only people that could freely discipline me were my folks. Which made me a menace to society

 

[dbkick]

Being the child not the swatter, I would have hit back. I knew that the only people that could freely discipline me were my folks. Which made me a menace to society

oh hitting back would have gotten you put in reform school real quick. I imagine some tough fuckers coming out of reform school, never attended myself.

 

[ThE sAtIvA hIgH]

In your face Sativa high.....

apology excepted, thankyou .

 

[srh88]

so anybody still spanking their child wanna go back to that stone age shit where a perfect stranger can assault your child with a fucking 1/2 inch thick board with holes drilled in it? shit would make national news today.

my elementary school had one. i grew up with my gma, she had the wooden spoon and hotwheel tracks. hotwheel tracks fucking HURT!