I wish i could believe the above statements, but two weeks ago, as i sat in a court room in Grand Rapids for a week, watching my older brothers trial, it was apparent to me that what you say is far from the truth... as it was found beyond reasonable doubt that he physically abused an 8 month year old baby girl to the point where it almost died, having to have part of its skull taken out and frozen because the swelling of her brain which would have led to an ischemic stroke, and inevitably death. He was found guilty by the jurors, he will get 11 years to life in prison, sentencing will be in four to six weeks.
Unfortunately, this planet is full of monstrous people. Sociopaths like my brother, who feel no guilt, no empathy, nor pain. Some people's brains just do not work in the same way as others, neither love nor compassion reside in some people. Life is not the fairytale we all dream it out to be. I think it is a very wise thing to do, to never forget that.
There are people out there who just want to hurt you, just because they want to hurt you. Some people just want to watch the world burn.