Thats a bummer man..she is a total fucking child for not just saying she wanted something new, chances are she had past relations with this guy that just got out of the joint, that being said, congratulations you have been liberated from a lying child cheat, that has no respect for you or the life you had created together... Golden info for the future... one time is too many...if they feel the need to seek passion elsewhere, it has been over for a while, never take them back....seriously take care, and if you grow the best weed in town I am sure you can find a nice little chic to suck the heartache out of you..later