I only see one person insisting that it only be for 1 day. I see a lot of other people that would be traveling from much farther away expressing the desire for it to be more. I respect, understand, and agree with what they are saying.
Either weekend around 4/20 would be fine with me, and I would get a spot for the entire weekend, and would prepare for it in advance. I dont understand why people are so stuck on the roasting a pig thing, either. It seems what needs to be established is the dates, location, and start making a checklist based on who has attended in the past and who will RSVP to attend next time.
Firewood shouldnt be an issue at all, and I know for a fact members can provide it without paying for it. Like me for example. I know I am going to have a lot going on around that time, so the more advanced notice and established the plan is, the better we could all prep for it.