@schuylaar can't choose her family, but she can make steps to rid herself of the thinking that was installed in her at a young age.
I won't give up on her. I feel she can be reached, but she needs to be made to see her error ways. Bernie would be so disappointed in his little Sky Baby right now.
You can't stop racism but you can choose how you deal with it. Did you name your daughter Leneeka? Or did you give her a more common name like Susan?