@zak89, whoa, cowboy. This is supposed to be a happy occasion. And our crop of choice typically is intended to mellow one's mood, not aggravate it. If you truly want to grow better, let a rude comment pass, and read the many posts that have already asked the same questions. That way you learn a lot without having to personally interact with forum members.
There will always be rude, ignorant, and very stoned posts here, often by those who unintentionally offend simply out of their inability to clearly communicate. Others are just dicks. I defy being insulted because the opinions of the rude and ignorant are entirely unimportant, and are to be instantly dismissed having zero merit. Ignore the true idiots. Welcome to RIU.