well, first of all i wouldnt give a rat´s ass.
i only married cause my heart feels miserable without my wife, she obviously feels the same way about me.
having sex with other women, the idea is really a joke, having sex with women you dont truly love, is like smoking halfway decent weed after having smoked the best weed in the world (and have a constant supply)
it gets ya barely high (in comparison) and is often more trouble than its worth.
so, id be very surprised if she did have sex with other men, plus its rather easy to see..
people in love dont fuck around (we all love intimacy and you only get it with lovers, not strangers,and people dont tend to be so loving that they love more than 1 that intimately)
and you tend to notice if someone doesnt love you and it takes a bit of time for people to get that estranged, usually..
less kissing and hugging for one. less sex. obvious less interest in sex.
more arguing and fighting.
looking sneaky or something lol
cause if they really love and are fucking around? well, then they got a problem, some sexmania or something.
and in those rare cases where they dont love you and fool you into thinking that they do, either dealing with a sociopath of sorts or you got money (or do soon)
either one rather easily spottable.
but there is one thing that can destroy a relationship
and thats a lack of trust.
so id be asking myself.
am i wondering this, because..
of personal insecurites? (past experiences f.e)
or is it because i actually notice something is off?
though personally i think any relationship not born of the heart is destined to break up anyway, so id check my heart, is it content?
is this a mental anxiety and paranoia or genuine feelings?
