420God
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How long you been married, how's that going?
Home-wreckers.
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Corso312
Well-Known Member
apologize for nothing captain, i have dated the same woman 3 years now..when i play angry birdz on her phone i go through there..so what, it is called being smart from where i come from
fabfun
New Member
u dont do nothing to the woman she isnt commited to you it is your man that needs to be dealt with
I'm trying to understand this - are you responding to your own post?
RawBudzski
Well-Known Member
Do not question Pada. He is so far beyond us he must debate with himself to find the true truth.!. It is Magical.
Padawanbater2
Well-Known Member
How could you say you trust someone but feel the need to look through their private business? Doesn't that automatically defeat the purpose of trust?
420God
Well-Known Member
Fine. Longest relationship? Unless you've been there you can't understand. Love isn't logical.
Padawanbater2
Well-Known Member
15 months give or take, and that actually was a huge problem. She felt the same way you do, I didn't. I think there are just some things that should be off limits, privacy is one of them. If she can't trust me without looking through my stuff why is she with me in the first place?
RawBudzski
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I agree, I think trust is still a beast of its own. you can have a successful marriage til your death bed loving each other.. has nothing todo whether their was trust or not. Honestly I do not see the logic in Trust, is it not being optimistic for no reason? what's wrong with two efficient calculating nit picking people being together, reassuring themselves when needed. I prefer the latter.
My longest was from 15yo to 22yo. 7 years almost exactly.. almost the most important years too imo :O
My longest was from 15yo to 22yo. 7 years almost exactly.. almost the most important years too imo :O
420God
Well-Known Member
Curiosity and trust are different things in a good relationship, maybe it's harder for some people to tell the difference.
Padawanbater2
Well-Known Member
Why the guise of playing a game on her phone with the intention of looking through her personal information? I know you didn't bring that up, it was someone else, but still. Would you ever ask "honey, can I read your text messages?"? How do you think that would make her feel? How would that make you feel if she asked you that? Like she didn't trust you right? I think it would be a little more than "oh she's just curious, why not...". I don't think it has anything to do with having anything to hide, it's just a matter of boundaries, space. You have to maintain independence even though you may be married and especially if it's only a girlfriend. Just my opinion anyway.
Michael Sparks
Active Member
So how about some open conversation with your "man" he is the one you need to be talking to, i got some ideas for payback but that isn't mature or is it.
Prefontaine
Well-Known Member
Its not logical who you love, but it is logical what your willing to put up with,
april
Pickle Queen
RawBudzski
Well-Known Member
Yes april !! Leave the Zero & Get with the Hero. 
I made that one up Alllll by myself...
I made that one up Alllll by myself...
Michael Sparks
Active Member
i am right with ya, however never did the long term relationship, just wasn't my style..
IMHO trust is a most critical element of a successful relationship.
We just celebrated our 25th - it simply would not have happened with out mutual trust and a huge dose of undying love.
That's how we roll.
Michael Sparks
Active Member
There are far many more than one someone for everyone.. try saying that five times sheesh