Home-wreckers.
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RawBudzski
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I know, what should we do to celebrate.?. I would have been @ 5k had that dumb "is god real" post had never been deleted. ^_^
DSB65
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RawBudzski
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Maybe is she was driving yea. 
She's My Passenger !! get away !!
She's My Passenger !! get away !!Well, what did your significant other do? Did he act on this, did he come to you or did you find out on your own?
I mean this scenario can be played out a million different ways and approaches.
What is seduce? Is it pulling and playing with her hair as she laughs at his jokes while you were at dinner? Is it her sitting on his lap and grinding her vjayjay into his crotch while you went and picked your kids up from grandmas?
See what I mean it is a question with a million possible combinations yet you want a definitive perspective.
Let me be frank here, if that is you in the avatar you shouldn't be worried. You're very attractive, and if your man would act on these urges (granted you're a decent person, and by most of your posts seem to be) then you don't want or need him in your life. You shouldn't have to worry if anyone comes on to your man/woman in a secure healthy relationship. There is ALWAYS going to be some type of attraction to other people outside your relationship, it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you have dinner at home I say. I don't know more of your particulars either, are you married, how long together etc. all that plays a role on how you would handle this. Me and my wife been together for 10 years and we are probably in best relationship we ever been in together, we don't get upset about someone coming on to each other because we are open about it and know each wouldn't act on it. Although sometimes I think I might want too but that's another story (as a consensual thing of course).
Corso312
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this is one of the main reasons why i doubt i would ever get married, 60% end in divorce and it always gets messy no clean breaks..a contract by law that you sign with a woman that judges have to settle instead of " i don't think this is going anywhere and i think we should stop seeing each other" the attorneys make out financially and both parties lose... i think society shoves it's message to woman that they should all get married and have a nice ceremony with a ring and spend 30k on it all...women in turn pressure their man into signing a lifetime contract bound by law to fit in with the rest of the women they know.
Morgan Lynn
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Thank you for the compliments. I needed a pick-me-up. I am not married he is my boyfriend. We share a child together and we've been dating for 4 years. I understand people will "come on" to him and I get hit on all the time so thats not the issue. The issue is that he acted apon it.
Don Gin and Ton
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my girl would nail my balls to the wall if i went on a breakfast date with another chick. let alone kissed or hugged them.
once a cheater always a cheater morgan
once a cheater always a cheater morgan
I see. Do you love him? Enough to get past the cheating...? I mean the cat's out of the bag now, time to deal with it or dump the mope and live and learn.
Obviously the later is going to be the toughest. It's scary, it hurts, and its probably the right thing to do, even for a short time.
I mean he cheated, that means he doesn't love or care enough about you or your feelings to even think what this would do to you and your relationship. Even with kids he didn't even bother to think about what it does to you as a family either, sounds like he is young dumb and full of c*m! Also too immature to tell you that things are not good in the relationship and has to screw behind your back. You don't need that, nor deserve that considering their are no circumstances we don't know about. If you can deal with the fact that he betrayed you, and deal with it then by all means work it out. Just realize that there are more underlying problems if he did this already, and they need to be addressed or you are wasting years with this guy.
Good luck. Things happen for a reason, why it's up to you to figure out.
Dankster4Life
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One thing to remember.No matter how much love there is once some thing like this happens it stays in your head.....forever.It will be a thought that is carried with you every day.It is a very hard thing to deal with.
So the question isn't only about him,it's also about you.Are you going to be able to deal with it every time you look at him?Cause it's gonna slap ya in the face........"that fuck cheated on me", daily, while you 2 are together.Stupid things will remind you easly 2 yrs from now and you will feel the same hurt and betrayal.
I think it is more important on how your going to deal with things than him screwin around.He may be away all day long,gettin some raggity ole sucky sucky.That isn't going to affect you.What is going to affect you is you dwelling on"is that scum fuck out there gettin some sucky suck?"
Staying with some one once the trust has been broken is an extremely hard thing to do.The thoughts do not go away.And also what if you do straighten his ass out and he see's the light and actually walks a straight line.the thoughts are still there,not healthy for a relationship but what can be done,you can't wipe your memory clean.
The main thing at blows about your situation is that there is a child involved.Now an innocent party will more than likely suffer in one way shape or form.
I wish you the best of luck with what ever you decide is best.
So the question isn't only about him,it's also about you.Are you going to be able to deal with it every time you look at him?Cause it's gonna slap ya in the face........"that fuck cheated on me", daily, while you 2 are together.Stupid things will remind you easly 2 yrs from now and you will feel the same hurt and betrayal.
I think it is more important on how your going to deal with things than him screwin around.He may be away all day long,gettin some raggity ole sucky sucky.That isn't going to affect you.What is going to affect you is you dwelling on"is that scum fuck out there gettin some sucky suck?"
Staying with some one once the trust has been broken is an extremely hard thing to do.The thoughts do not go away.And also what if you do straighten his ass out and he see's the light and actually walks a straight line.the thoughts are still there,not healthy for a relationship but what can be done,you can't wipe your memory clean.
The main thing at blows about your situation is that there is a child involved.Now an innocent party will more than likely suffer in one way shape or form.
I wish you the best of luck with what ever you decide is best.
jonblaze420
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Suggest couples counseling and if he's willing take him up on it.
chichi
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I don't think you should have checked his phone. (even couples should be able to have privacy)
But i would tell that chick to walk on ... and if you find out she's sniffing around your man again, you'll knock her teeth down her throat!
As for your man...if he wants to stay, he needs to show you that you're the only one...and if not, he can walk on too!
But i would tell that chick to walk on ... and if you find out she's sniffing around your man again, you'll knock her teeth down her throat!
As for your man...if he wants to stay, he needs to show you that you're the only one...and if not, he can walk on too!
Capt. Stickyfingers
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Fuck that. I'll look through my wife's phone whenever I want, she can look through mine. If someone has a problem with their wife/longtime girlfriend looking through their phone, then they have something to hide. You pretty much relinquish 99.9% of your privacy as soon as you marry someone or live and share a child with someone. If you want privacy don't have kids or get married. Period.
no. it's called privacy and trust.
if you feel compelled to go through your wife's phone every night, just to be sure, then you married a HO'!!!!!
lol
i NEVER go through my woman's phone, and she never goes through mine... but then again we do almost everything together, even going to the pharmacy to get her birth control... i'll tag along, never know what kind of goodies i'll get a craving for in the candy isle....
Padawanbater2
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I couldn't disagree more with this. How can you say you trust your wife if you are doing shit like this? If a woman I'm with want's to go through my shit, I tell her "OK, but there goes the trust, have at it..".
You sound like Napolitano "if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to fear" with that bullshit.
Padawanbater2
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You gonna let a cop go through your house with that attitude, just because he want's to?
...nothing to hide, nothing to fear, right?!
jonblaze420
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It's a big deal to build up that kind of loving, trusting relationship with someone. Once you have it though...you're golden.
From one happy husband to another
Capt. Stickyfingers
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I said if I WANT to. Say I used her phone needed to find the number I dialed earlier and have to go searching through it, she wouldn't object. If she did then it's obvious she has something to hide. I never said that I actively search through my wife's phone. I also never said I don't trust my wife. You fools are taking what I said the wrong way.
Edit: If my wife was having "breakfast dates" with someone, then I would snoop, I have every right to. As does the op.
Edit: If my wife was having "breakfast dates" with someone, then I would snoop, I have every right to. As does the op.
Capt. Stickyfingers
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You fuck and have kids and share a house with a cop?