Well I am "old" by most peoples standards now 'cause most humans I see are way younger than me by some distance..................
it has never been over rated for me - since I never seem to get enough and it has all been good. However, some has been better than others.
As already mentioned above- it seems to get under rated by those who dont get much or none at all. Or have limited or a bad experience in the matter.
it should be a way to strenghten a pair bond and show ones special attraction and affection for a special friend. Not a contract which binds or is used to manipulate another. If it is for a mutualistic good cause that is greater than self, then it can be the most beautiful thing you can experience............
Or not so it depends, no? Primarily on yourself and how you end up engaging in it and the circumstances involved............... but it can not be forced into a good outcome. It must come "naturally".
Thats what I think about that
'jus sayin................ nice thread here
P.S.- it seems to help me to get "tuned up" first (if you know what I mean)
and then she looked at me with those big brown eyes and said: "you aint seen nothin yet. B-B-B baby, you just aint seen nothin yet."