I honestly appreciate this feedback.... it makes me feel better. lol. I've always felt men are FAR more obsessed with appearance. Most of my friends are guys though, and based on feedback from them I've got a pretty good reason for feeling this way. Maybe I just surround myself with shitty people.
But you can't say most people don't form an immediate assumption based on looks alone before meeting someone. What else do you have to form an opinion? Obviously that can CHANGE after meeting someone... but I hear guys judge their friends ALL the time for talking to some less-than-ideal chick at the bar. Or talk shit about some hot girl who come to find out has a weird lookin downstairs. Guys suck. If I waited until I got in bed with a guy for him to find out my hair isn't real, you KNOW he'd tell all of his friends and they'd have a good laugh about it. It's just what people do.