What kind of great jobs are there for women in Qatar?.....sounds fishy to me....and someone is going to really miss growing and smoking weed.
Yes, I probably jumped the gun a bit. I'm sure there are exceptions, but I would say that they are definitely in the minority. How many relationships of any kind survive? Complicate that with selling everything you own, leaving your friends and family, and moving to a 3rd world country to start a life with someone you barely know. I just think a lot of due diligence is in order, and I think that you were really fortunate, and hey I'm thrilled that you're happy! Hopefully he will end up the same way.