easy answer. the guy who wants to deny service to someone because of their skin color is the one being aggressive and offensive.
the guy who is being denied service simply because of his skin color is the one who is on the defensive, trying to defend himself for being born with a certain skin color.
now tell us all about how you hate "forced integration", same as the white supremacists over at the "white genocide" project.
Except you're wrong.
The reason why you're wrong is every person has the right to freely chose their human interactions on a peaceful and mutual basis. No person has the right to tell, another person, "hey you WILL interact with me and if you don't like it, I will occupy your property and call thugs to ensure we will have an interaction. "
Slaves are forced into human interactions on a uni-lateral basis, free people are not, those interactions are on a mutual basis. It has nothing to do with a persons race, it has to do with respecting the idea that none of us has the right to make others choices for them about how they will use their justly acquired property. In short, shitting on or occupying property that isn't yours is a property right violation.