could you marry a girl thats been with 25 or more dudes?

ChinaCat

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OUTSTANDINGLY SUPERB


Well I wanna Buy it .... I already made the deposit....


Hows the Driver ....
LOL.... honestly, I think it all depends on how the person, male or female, conducts themselves and cares for their body. You can put lipstick on a pig but she/he is still a pig.

Johnny said it quite well.... spoken like a true gentleman.
 

Sunnysideup

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Here you go Puff:
can you qoute it for me? im curiouskiss-ass
That's precisely what I thought when I read the first post.

For me, it is largely irrelevant. It matters not how many partners one has had previously. What is relevant is how many partners they intend to have after you establish a relationship.

I should be able to gauge a woman's quality long before it reaches the point where we hit the sheets.

But I don't fall into bed with every girl I meet.
 

korvette1977

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LOL.... honestly, I think it all depends on the person, male or female, conducts themselves and cares for their body. You can put lipstick on a pig but she/he is still a pig.

Johnny said it quite well.... spoken like a true gentleman.

Lipstick on a pig .. Too funny .................

(Bobby's House) (inside joke )
 

Sunnysideup

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thank you very much :) IM alil lazy right now lol


....And how true it is. Being faithful is the key to trust in a relationship. without it just cant have a real relationship.
That is true....and in order to have a successful relationship one must let go of ones past...it shouldn't matter. What should matter is the 'now' not the 'then'.....
 

korvette1977

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That is true....and in order to have a successful relationship one must let go of ones past...it shouldn't matter. What should matter is the 'now' not the 'then'.....




AMEN...... The past is the past ...


But if you dont learn from it ,,History is bound to repeat itself ..
 

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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That is true....and in order to have a successful relationship one must let go of ones past...it shouldn't matter. What should matter is the 'now' not the 'then'.....
That depends if that other someone shares the same point of view. Its very hard to forgive what was done b4 you got to the present. Only God is that forgiving, and he even makes you admits your sins b4 your forgiven.

...But you seem like you have some years on me so what do i know! haha
 

Sunnysideup

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AMEN...... The past is the past ...


But if you dont learn from it ,,History is bound to repeat itself ..
Yeah that is true...but, learning from it and harping on it are two different things.

That depends if that other someone shares the same point of view. Its very hard to forgive what was done b4 you got to the present. Only God is that forgiving, and he even makes you admits your sins b4 your forgiven.

...But you seem like you have some years on me so what do i know! haha
I'm not saying forgive, I am saying keep it where it belongs...In the past. If you love someone, and you know the person they are now, that is all that should matter. I don't think anyone should be labeled because of something they may have done in their past....Let it go, life is too short for all the shit...you know?
 

ChinaCat

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Yeah that is true...but, learning from it and harping on it are two different things.


I'm not saying forgive, I am saying keep it where it belongs...In the past. If you love someone, and you know the person they are now, that is all that should matter. I don't think anyone should be labeled because of something they may have done in their past....Let it go, life is too short for all the shit...you know?

Yes, but forgiving/forgetting it and moving on makes things so much easier. As Sunny said.... let it go!

Learn from your own errors and try not to repeat them......and until you are in someone's shoes.... don't judge them.
 

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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Yeah that is true...but, learning from it and harping on it are two different things.


I'm not saying forgive, I am saying keep it where it belongs...In the past. If you love someone, and you know the person they are now, that is all that should matter. I don't think anyone should be labeled because of something they may have done in their past....Let it go, life is too short for all the shit...you know?

i def see were your coming from... I guess im alil bit of an ass because im not so forgiving. Its like this girl i was just talking to, all of the past would be brought up and it would make me sick. eventually there was a straw that broke the camels back and i was totally repulsed by her (even though i was extremely attracted to her)

I can forgive but only to a certain point
 

ChinaCat

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i def see were your coming from... I guess im alil bit of an ass because im not so forgiving. Its like this girl i was just talking to, all of the past would be brought up and it would make me sick. eventually there was a straw that broke the camels back and i was totally repulsed by her (even though i was extremely attracted to her)

I can forgive but only to a certain point
That is why it is safer to not ask so many questions about the past. All you need to know is how the person treats you and how they pass the test. Take it from there.

I make it a point to not talk about past relationships.... just because most of it doesn't matter.

:hug:
 

Sunnysideup

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Yes, but forgiving/forgetting it and moving on makes things so much easier. As Sunny said.... let it go!

Learn from your own errors and try not to repeat them......and until you are in someone's shoes.... don't judge them.
Amen sister!!! :clap::clap::clap:

So glad to see another female out here. :peace:
 

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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I agree with you on the most part But to add to it:

if your having sex with a girl whos been with 25+ guys and you cant already tell then its your own fault and you need to really learn how to play the game. Men think one way and women think the other, You need to learn how women think, but first you have to know how you think. If your a pussy then girls are gonna walk allover you, thats a no brainer. But you need to be walked over! You need to learn what it feels like to be someones bitch! You need to learn so you can prevent it, and use it for your own good.

ive seen so many guys get caught up with girls and you have to understand normal people just want to cure the loneliness*** inside of them. Sure you have some people who have sex to "feel" that little something that tells them they are alive. Its kinda like the reason i smoke weed really, But that doesnt make me a whore for enjoying a long euphoric high (form something so harmless to everyone but the user).

Women who sleep around with many partners are no more different then someone who has an alcohol addiction or w.e.... the point is you have to treat them how they want to be treated. they want to be treated like they are worth something to the world, All women (and men) think like this. but the point of view of worth to the Hoe is mostly physical with materialistic ideals. its not hard to figure out. However tempting it is to be with a Hoe, if your smart you will never love her. Nothing good can ever come of it. She is the way she is and just like this blunt roach im about to put out, well she is the same way. Thrown out to be picked up by someone less fortunate.

....I dont know why im ranting on about whatever i just wrote but damn im high and i just felt like typing. This is how i talk with my boys and im sorry if I offended any women/ladies out there :mrgreen:
im kinda surprised i didnt get more responses to this bongsmilie
 

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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That is why it is safer to not ask so many questions about the past. All you need to know is how the person treats you and how they pass the test. Take it from there.

I make it a point to not talk about past relationships.... just because most of it doesn't matter.

:hug:
Wow if you could teach women around the world not to talk about past relationships that would do me and probably every other man on this earth a HUGE favor! lol
 

Johnnyorganic

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If it happened before you came along, there is nothing to forgive because none of it had anything to do with you.

That's in the 'none of my business' category.
Wow if you could teach women around the world not to talk about past relationships that would do me and probably every other man on this earth a HUGE favor! lol
Are you willing to follow the same guidelines?
 
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