Go straight to Lowe's and pick up some organic insecticide. You'll never win if you are just killing the mites as you find them. One day you'll go outside and it will be one big web.
As for cutting off the bud from the re-vegging plants, did someone recommend this? I've always heard you leave them and the plant will cannibalize the bud for the nutrients in it. I've never done it myself though so maybe someone has figured out a new trick I never read about.
I went to wal mart and got some ortho garden pest control. Says it kills mites and their eggs along with white flies, thrips... and more. I dont want to spray the plants because im afraid of what the spray might do to them, so im going to spray the outside and inside of the pot and the top of the soil. I will repeat this probably every 3 days because I read that spider mites reproduce in 72 hours.
I tried what you suggested last season, by leaving the buds on and hoping the plant cannibalizes the bud for the nutrients, but it doesnt work... The plant just died...
So this time around im doing something different... something veggiegardener does... Im going to cut just the top kola off and leave as many fan leaves as I can. Then maybe trim a few pop corn buds a week later leaving as many fan leaves as I can.
Why im doing this? The plants are starting to re-veg and I want some bud to smoke. Ive read so many grow journals and talked to my friends that grow mass for collectives. They say this is the best way to get bud and give your plant a chance to re-veg.
What you suggest seems just like a waste of bud. I have pictures from last season showing what leaving the bud on and hoping for re-veg does... in short... dead plant.