deserate for some solid advice...

vro said:

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The only scenario where I would do what the female here does, is if you were publicly embarrassed. I WOULD laugh, because shit's funny.

The rest I'm male friend 100%. Maybe a couple I'd side with the DAWG...

Those kinds of girls are shitty people. I don't associate with girls like that.

YOU NEED TO MEET DIFFERENT GIRLS.

farsyt said:

Right now at this moment in time I would rather just be dead.

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That's pretty out-there to drop that statement into a forum of absolute strangers. I think you're bored shitless and making this thread up? either way, sorry hun.

PM someone in this thread if you are genuine with your story, I'm pretty damn sure you don't exist the way you claim. If nobody hears from you to verify that you are 'real', then... thanks for the suicide threat, next time dial 911.

farsyt said:

Right now at this moment in time I would rather just be dead.

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.....So now its about attention.

abe supercro said:

That's pretty out-there to drop that statement into a forum of absolute strangers. I think you're bored shitless and making this thread up? either way, sorry hun.

PM someone in this thread if you are genuine with your story, I'm pretty damn sure you don't exist the way you claim. If nobody hears from you to verify that you are 'real', then... thanks for the suicide threat, next time dial 911.

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Not bored
Not making it up
And did take someone up on an offer to PM...

Cobnobuler said:

.....So now its about attention.

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Actually NO

Man y'all are some dickheads! This lady is having some serious issues in her life, and y'all are just making it worse. I mean this probably the worst place on the web to post this, but come on guys.. show a little respect

Hey I'm giving good advice.

You can't take care of your little girl if you don't take care of you. Has He found out you posted here?

ODanksta said:

Man y'all are some dickheads! This lady is having some serious issues in her life, and y'all are just making it worse. I mean this probably the worst place on the web to post this, but come on guys.. show a little respect

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I don't like it when someone says, "I'd rather be dead" to seek attention. That's my prerogative from my life experience.

WHATFG said:

You can't take care of your little girl if you don't take care of you. Has He found out you posted here?

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I've been wondering that! The thread has been running for a few days now. Surely he must have seen it?

Flaming Pie said:

Hey I'm giving good advice.

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I'm talking to more to the guys.. And yes you are giving good advice Imo

lahadaextranjera said:

I've been wondering that! The thread has been running for a few days now. Surely he must have seen it?

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If he has seen it he will probably not let on.

I really appreciate everyone opinions. Hard to read some of them obviously cos its not what one wants to hear but at least they are helping me put perspective. I managed to sleep for an hour or two last night... and actually managed to eat some crumbs and keep it down. First time since Monday last week.

You seriously need to separate yourself from this situation...if you can't keep food down, that is your body reacting to the emotional state you're in...how's your little girl?

Am removed right now....with good friends who are looking after me for a while and allowing me to talk it all out loud, cry and scream and rant and vent, bitch, give up, get it together.... Not forcing me or pressuring me and no time limit.
Our little girl is at home with her dad... I miss her so much. Being here with friends and their kids makes me see just how close my daughter and I are actually. We have a very isolated life so she and I spend lots of time together. Like me she's a total softie. I am far from them now... cant even pop in and give her a hug
She doesnt want this. That I am more than 100% certain. I know this because she is more honest with me than with her dad. He gets angry and impatient so easily and she is always so careful not to do things to annoy him. Sometimes she is afraid to tell him things. But I know she'll say things to him just to please his mood. Sad I know. All she wants is for her mom and dad to be together and to work out their shit. She knows he has not been entirely fair.
And that PISSES her off.
She is such an incredibly strong little soul. I am so proud of her

Why did you leave without your daughter????

You need to go and scoop her up...she is now walking on eggshells without you...

I am bipolar and I have a daughter. Sometimes I have to mentally slap myself to stop from having anxiety attacks.

As a mother you are not allowed to fall apart to the point of being unable to care for your child. She always comes first.

Always.

Always remember you don't need to leave with anything but the clothes on your back and your baby in arms....

Yeah, you can always have friends or family go retrieve your things.