I used to be deluded we were all different and special. It's a bunch of shit. We're all the same, we just like to pretend we're not. The only difference between us all is what we choose to accept as reality. But we all take the same input. It's not like the laws of physics are different around the successful and they have more of a luck aura, or whatever. If that were the case, then I'd have pity as to why people fuck up. We fuck up because we haven't reached our true potential on the way to enlightenment. Everyone can become enlightened once you realize what you didn't before, it becomes more clear. It's what happens while studying, once the ah ha moment hits you, it's like, why was this so hard before.
Your SES makes no difference if you have what someone needs. If you don't have what another needs, no one cares about you.
It all has to do with your skill set and how you play the game.
I'm not playing their game here online, you're all playing mine. Just so you know, none of you are winning.