Black people will often say "you don't know what it's like to be black." And they're right, I don't. But they don't known what it is like to not be black.
Bad shit happens by random chance to all people. The worst part of our legacy of racism is that it is now impossible for blacks and others to tell when whatever it is that doesn't go their way went bad by random dumb luck, or because of racism.
Black people bitch about resumes with 'black sounding' names getting 20% fewer call backs, but they use stupid fucking names. I wouldn't hire someone with a name I can't read either.
A lot of what is perceived racism is actually just life.