You should use the real name of someone who lives at that address. If you don't the post office may hold the mail and you have to go get it. It's a hassle and a lot of extra attention when you don't want it and it was your screw up in the first place not using a real name. Mail is checked...
Outdoor strains I have grown at 42N zone 6 and can recommend for the NE: Mandala #1, Pineapple Kush, Holland's Hope, Guerrilla's Gusto, Wonder Woman, Aurora Indica, Early Sativa, White Widow, Swiss Cheese and Kaya Gold.
I would get about 1/4 oz per plant under led's equivalent watts. But I never tried very hard. They were mere casual grows for fun and limited by the need to be stealthy.
The present will pass, the future will always arrive. Don't screw up your future for a moment in the present. If you look like a stoner, then clean up your act. Get a haircut, get a job and wear clean clothes. Do your service, do your time and get it over with once and for all. Then toke it up.
I pull out as many as possible without damaging the bud. As the bud dries and cures, I like the way the smaller leaves wrap the bud. I'm sure this method is too labor intensive and time consuming for most. I don't grow that much.
Sulfur smell can sometimes be the result of iron consuming bacteria. There is a method of bleaching the well to kill the bacteria to cure the smell. Obviously you can't use the water while the bleach is working for a day or two, then the system has to be flushed.
Stored water will not go bad within your timeframe. Roots get their oxygen from the water flooding out the old air then as the soil dries it pulls in fresh air. The oxygen does not have to be in the water. Your plan will work fine.